unprotected sex

[condom]

Hi basically I know a girl and I want to have sex with her without a condom. If I get het tested for HIV and all the other stuff what are the risks of me catching something? I mean she may have been with guys and have caught hiv but the anti bodies are not yet present. Is there a risk at all?

[Rollo]

Are you a total idiot? Or just a moron?

[condom]

is that bad advice or just offensive?

[Rollo]

I see, you are just a moron.

[cazzz1975]

why dont you learn to embrace using condoms?

[sn�gs]

The only risk I can see is to her... having sex - protected or unprotected - with a complete and utter numpty like you...

[rinkins]

LOL rollo and snags. How perfectly put!

[Beatrice35]

Never have sex with anyone without protection/ a condom unless in a long term stable relationship or married- sleep around with anyone without protection + you put yourself at risk of catching HIV or any number of STD's- not a sensible idea, for sure. Do you care about your own health? If so do not play with fire- use a condom + ensure it is on properly + what is more get to know any girl before you sleep with them. Take very good care- contracting HIV or an STD is not something to risk or be flippant about.
Bea- a happily married lady

[condom]

oh yes lol lol lol you are all so funny. We actually are both getting tests done.may I also ask who else out there has NEVER had unprotected sex. I mean what is wrong with you people????????????????????????

sounds like you dont like new commers on your site right?

[mccfluff]

have i missed something is it stupid day?

[condom]

bea I agree with you 100% I am just asking the risks of such afetr both parties getting tested for everything.

[sn�gs]

''We actually are both getting tests done''

Well if you'd given us all the info to begin with maybe you would'nt have got the replies that you did...

Numpty ;-)

[Rollo]

Unprotected sex = "I want to be a daddy".

Do you want that? Does the lady concerned want that too?

[cazzz1975]

casual sex should always be protected, if you are in a longer term relationship with the person then you can have unprotected sex.

[Beatrice35]

Rollo was right ;-)
If you carry on with this attitude you may even be dead in a few years time or sterile ( STD's can lead to male sterility). You do not get HIV tested so you can have unprotected sex- oh my gosh!! Sex is not something to fool around with- you may have so many minutes of pleasure for a lifetime of pain if you catch HIV. Do not play Russian roulette.
Wise up please for your own sake.

[rinkins]

Nothing to do with newcomers at all, we were all new once.

But you have missed something else about unprotected sex - PREGNANCY?! It's all very well getting yourselves checked for the other things but what about that?

[Beatrice35]

Cazzzz1975 is right, too!

[ChuckFickens]

Why is anyone even bothering to answer this... a name like condom and a question like this is obviously a windup!

[condom]

I am asking what the risks are. I think I am just going to go ahead and do it. the tests are already booked and I havent slept with anyone else for 6 months and sh INSISTED on a test or either wearing a condom. thing is I am allergic to wearing condoms. that is the opnly reason.

[marval]

So you are both going to get tested. There seems to be one thing you have forgotten about, you can't get tested for having a baby. if you really are stupid enough not to want to use protection. then you are both too stupid to have a baby. You both need to have a really hard think about why you do not want to use protection. You say you know a girl, so obviously you are both quite young. Too young to be thinking about sex without protection.

Don't get upset by other people's comments, they are giving you sound advice.

[condom]

chuck it isnt a wind up. my username is related to my question as that is the ONLY reason i joined this forum