trying for a baby

[rachybaby]

hi,
me and my partner have been trying for a baby for 7months now, i have not been on the pill for the whole time, we are worried that one of us can not conceive, can any1 help with this? thanks

[sherrardk]

What - apart from the drink driving, the serious accident and the legal high?

[bednobs]

you don't need to worry just yet - if you went to see your gp they would not worry until you had been infertile for 2 years

[rachybaby]

considering we have been trying before all of this! just because of all this bad things going on in my life does that mean i should not be able to have children , you dont have a clue about my life or how any of these things came about so i suggest if you dont have anything nice to say stay off the comments yeah?!!

[bednobs]

plus, it might help for you to be healthy in body -no drinking smoking or drugs. Would also help for you to be a reasonable weight.
How often do you do sex? You need to do it often to maximise your chances.
if you want to totally maximise your chances then get something like the clearblue fertility monitor and do sex on the days it indicates

[tanny22]

no wonder you cant conceive with all the drink and drugs having a baby wont keep you out of prison

[sherrardk]

But don't you think it is a bit too much of a coincidence that your accident was in April and you have been trying for a baby for 7 months? If you were trying for a baby before the accident why were you taking drugs (your own admission) and drinking so much that you have been charged with drink driving?

[bednobs]

yes, all this "bad things" going on in your life SHOULD prevent you having a baby. Drinking and taking drugs really isn't the best start for concieving or for a baby's health. Plus to be honest, with both of the childs parents in prison, it's not the ideal start in life

[rachybaby]

keep me out of prison! ha u seriously are sick minded eyy! just goes to show you have no clue about me or my life !

also i have not smoked my whole life! i had taking them legal drugs on 2 occasions in my whole life and i rarley drink! so dont sum how thnk they could have anything to do with it!

thanks for the info bedknobs :)

[bednobs]

well again to be honest you have not made good choices, so i wonder whether you are mature enough to consider being a parent. You may rarely drink and take drugs, but decided it was a good idea to drive while over the limit drunk. You say anyone can make a mistake and that's true BUT with a child "making a mistake" can have very serious consequences for that child. Perhaps with all that's going on in your life at the moment, it's not the ideal time to start trying

[bandearg]

have just read your othe rpost rach. To be honest if the so called "drugs" you were caught with were legally perscribed then you have nothing to worry on that matter. However the more serious nature of drinking and driving whatever the cause is unacceptable but I think you know that. To be honest taking any form of medication illegal or legal with alcohol is not recommended.


As for the baby issue, perhaps it may be more important to as they say get your house in order before you bringa child into the world. You need to sort out your own issues that led to the drinking and the need for the drugs you were taking. You also need the support of a partner who is available not one in prison. So perhaps the timing is not great at the moment. Best get yourself sorted first

[Mr_Benn]

When you grow up and get over your demons hopefully you'll fall pregnant rachybaby

[cazzz1975]

all the bad things going on in your life should indicate that its not time to have a baby, remember babies are very hard work and you cannot walk away when you get bored/tired/stressed

[cherry_c_s]

i am afraid getting pregnant so you don' t go to jail for you drink diving supplying drugs , driving without insurance oh and with no licence wont work sorry they will put the child into care as you don't seem fit enough to look after one ;-)

[society]

Stop trying so hard. If it’s to be it'll be; you'll have a baby. Ever heard the saying 'be careful what you wish for’? Everything happens for a reason...

[tanny22]

agree with cherry and i think we have given this thread as much as we can,total losers both of them.

[tanny22]

tony he will conceive in prison when a big buck n@@@gger gets him bending in the shower