Perhaps he was a naughty vicar sqad. What about if you are gay, could a man catch it from a man or would he have to be bisexual. Does it hang about in your body ready to pounce because as you know I have been widowed for 18 months and too old at 84 to find another sexual liaison and have had it several times within the past year. In fact because I had it several times my GP arranged tests at the hospital. Nothing bad underlying I am glad to say but all the things suggested are what I do including cranberry juice, plenty of water, perfume free soap, and also the prof told me to eat some natural yoghurt every day, which I do. At the moment it seems to be staying away, fingers crossed. It and vertigo are the two things I hate the most.