FB friends request

[mollykins]

One of the people I work behind the scenes with at 'oliver' has added me as a friend. I don't really like them but if I don't accept it, they're probably going to either be more b1tchy about/ around me or completely ignore me, knowing her. Yes I know it's sad, but if I was never going to see her again then it wouldn't be too bad.

Plus, she's only a couple of years older than me but her sister's one of the Nancys so that's probably why in the programme her title is something like 'assistant backstage manager'. I'm only 'backstage crew' but TBH I'm doing more work while she's there and I get there/ leave after her, so overall am doing a lot more than she is.

This next bit you don't have to read, it's just a bit of a rant.

For example, i was helping with the major scene changes which was during the interval and between 8/12 quick scene changes. She helped with them plus moved something such as a tray or a couple of books off the stage for the others. The rest of the time I was in the props/ quick change room helping the little'uns get changed especially those needing microphones and most of the other microphone changes aswell. And I was sorting peoples hair out - cos I go to cadets I can do a nice, neat and secure bun :) and i was doing some other bits of pieces. But during this time, that other girl was sat down for msot of the time, and occaisionally came in to help put the microphone on this guy she fancies.

Rant over (I know life's not fair).

What should i do, it's not exactly life or death but I don't want to be really awkward.

[milly143]

Accept her, then hide her then when it's over delete her.

[ummmm]

Wait until the play is over then delete her.

[lumination]

why dont you just accept her request then when the play is over, delete her. much easier.

[jackthehat]

Have you ever thought of starting a blog ?

It would be a place where you could rant to your hearts content...........

[AB Editor]

You can create groups of people on facebook, create one called "backstage crew" put her in there, set your privacy so she can't see anything on your profile.

Facebook is dangerous isn't it?

[mollykins]

Good idea milly, umm and lumin, but block her aswell as deleting else she can still contact me . . .

[ummmm]

Yep...block her as well :-)

I have loads on my block list now...

[China Doll]

Don't add her and s0d what anyone else thinks... Or tell 'em to stick up their ar$e if they question you aobut it... But then my facebook etiquette is often found wanting.

[mccfluff]

just don;t add her, don;t see what the drama is about

[mollykins]

it's not a big deal to me, but I know what she's like and what she'd say/ do if i didn't accept her.

[ummmm]

What would she do?

[mollykins]

Read my OP.

[The-HouseHusband]

Oh No, Facebook is going to cause the end of the world!!!!!

[ummmm]

I did...I thought she might 'do' something worse.

So someone you don't like might be more bitchy...or ignore you. Don't add her and hope for the latter.