My girl friend loves two men..me unable to take a decision!!!?

[raghu_krishna]

i m 22 yrs old..my problem is my girl friend is in love with two men including me.I m in love with her for the last 3-4 months nd we have shared all our stories 2gther.But once she told me abt another relation which she carries for the last 1 yr..And i was shocked..But she told me dat she can't hide this relation from me..She loves me sincerely...But she can't leave both of us.she can't make both of us sad..Other guy don't knw abt me.nd last month i have sex with my grl frnd..Nw i m not able to leave her...I want to marry her nd live with her...i knw no one can accept such a relation..But i love her that much...i loved her evn aftr knwing her past relation..plz give me some advice...i m really helpless!!!

[sandyRoe]

Ménage á trois?

[didoatwork]

I smell a rat

[boxtops]

If she loves both of you, nothing is going to come of it. If she doesn't. she's playing you along. If you have only known her 3-4 months, then it's a bit early to be thinking of marriage - and if she's having sex with you, is she having it with him too? She's known the other chap longer than you - don't forget she's cheating on him too, by being with you.
I'd have a long hard think about this relationship, if I were you.

[ummmm]

Toughy....

Will you be able to trust her?

[yogi-bear]

Sounds like you've made the decision already, raghu.........i'm not personally in for sloppy seconds, so in your shoes, I would ask her to decide......you or him?

:0)

[raghu_krishna]

i m geeting mad...i m not able to take any decision....oho god!!!

[bondgirl007]

yer im with yogi on this one no one wants to be the second fiddle

[trt]

Marry her, she seems the ideal woman!

[joko]

me too... bad english language, yet uses textspeak...and lots of ...

[Bobbisox]

eh???
this takes some reading raghu...why all the text speak?
to answer what I percieve you are saying, as Yogi has said "Why play second fiddle"?

[raghu_krishna]

my language is very poor..srry...

[B00]

Keep her.

Think about it, this could work to your advantage. When you have days when you really CBA, send her packing to his for a few days, thus leaving you to enjoy the peace and quiet guilt free.

I an concerned however by...
"i have sex with my grl frnd..Nw i m not able to leave her..." Why? are you now fused together or something? Should we all be concerned for your safety and well-being?

[boxtops]

Most of us understand you, raghu - I'd go and find someone else who isn't already in a relationship with someone else. No good can come of it.

[pa___ul3]

first things first, get down to the GUM clinic.. if she's slept with you and she's likely to be sleeping with the other guy, best get your chappy checked out!

[micmak]

I smell the same rat as dido.

[sandyRoe]

This chap can manage two girlfriends. Why can't your girlfriend manage two chaps?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=umhuM3M_mfI

[didoatwork]

MikMak & Trim LOL