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Bullies from childhood
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I have been chatting on FB with some old school pals who set up a page for our school days - sharing memories etc, I was bullied badly at school and will never forget the people who did that. Some of these 'bullies' have asked for my friendship and I've declined - why do they act like nothing happened back then, or perhaps they cant remember, but would you live and let live and befriend them, or would you ignore them and have nothing further to do with them?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I was bullied quite badly by a particular group, this went on for a while until the ring leader of the group made two serious mistake when he started on me, one he was by himself and two it was out of school. I proceeded to give him a good thumping and finished off by telling him if I had any trouble at school I'd find him again. I've never forgiven or forgotten him and at the only school reunion I've attended I had the greatest pleasure in telling him that even if he'd conveniently forgotten some things I hadn't and what I'd told him then still applied.
No I cant forgive, some of it was quite nasty...I have ignored the requests, but I suddenly had a pang of selfishness and thought "i should have got over this by now" life goes on etc...but I dont think its that simple. 4 girls from school waited for me and ambushed me while I walked home and beat the living daylights out of me. I did have 4 brothers though ! ;-)
i'll never forget what happened at school. i was no angel, but never picked on anyone else and was my own worst enemy. however, some of the snotty, rich, bitchy elite from the school i attended have tried to contact me through fb and friends reunited (from info from my actual friends). i have never used either and do not plan to. i may go to school reunions in the future, but cannot promise i will be well behaved - and i've got a couple of people i certainly need to see for five minutes. if you know what i mean.
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