hello again, tilly. it entirely depends on why specifically he is in the care home (physical or mental health needs - or both?), what type of care home it is (older persons, supported living or shared accommodation etc.), his age, what he is paying for (care, accomodation or support fees) and level of income/savings. if you are willing to discuss these, i may have a better idea. it can be a minefield knowing what should happen vs. what actually happens. social services usually try and wheedle money out of people if they can, in my experience x