What's the best medications for premature ejaculation?

[Yosharma]

My boyfriend has a problem which he says he's always had which is starting to cause arguments as he doesn't want to make love as he thinks he's leaving me unfulfilled.

Please any medications or any tips to make him less sensitive.

Thank you in advance.

[factor-fiction]

Can't he satisfy you in other ways first?

[Sqad]

I am not a fan of counselling.........never have been.......who counsels the counsellors?

Drugs are ineffective in my opinion.

Leaflets and pamphlets are a sure sign of a hopeless medical solution.

Factor 3 is absolutely correct.

[beso]

Cannabis. Unfortunately it is illegal but it certainly works well for some.

[Baldric]

For a first post it was over very quickly!
;o)

[magsmay]

Squad -considering you are a health professional your attitude towards counselling is a tad cavalier (though you are of course entitled to your opinions). Who counsels the counsellors? Well to remain a member of the BACP The Ethical Framework Best practice requires accredited counsellors and those working towards accreditation to have 1 hour of supervision for every 8 hours client work -this supervision includes talking to your supervisor about your own challenges. This is expensive and has to be paid for by the counsellor -this is why a lot of us do free sessions for charity as they then pay for the supervisory sessions. HTH x

[boxtops]

Google your local sexual health clinic (rather than going to the GP) - they will have specialist staff used to dealing with all sorts of sexual dysfunction (not very nice to call it that, but this falls into that category). You don't have to go through the GP, you can just arrange to go and see them direct. where in the UK do you live?

[Sqad]

magsmay....I agree with your comments entirely........my opinion concerning counselling certain is in the minority.....BUT...my opinion is based on seeing the results of this form of management.

[magsmay]

@Squad -I think it depends what sort of counselling you are offered and what issues you trying to address. IMO counselling would not help the OP's problem though sexual therapies coupled with appropriate medication would.

[Sqad]

magsmay...maybe! maybe!....;-)

[magsmay]

@squad LOL! -well if that doesn't work she could go back to the idea of wearing an Anne Widecombe mask.....

[Khandro]

Why not start off the proceedings by treating him to a Lloyds bank?

[piggynose]

excuse my ugly use of the english language, and i´m being serious, has he tried choking the chicken? ejaculating prior to making love.

[sandyRoe]

It's not everybody has a chicken to hand during their most private moments. Unless they were dallying in the hen house.

[piggynose]

pmsl sandy

[douglas9401]

I've used visualisation techniques in the past. I saw myself as the eternal silver medallist, always coming second.

[RodJohnson]

Premature Ejaculation is actually common for guys of different ages. While he may be embarrassed to talk about it, the truth is he's going to have to sooner or later- or he's going to keep pushing people away and only hurting HIMSELF in the long run. My suggestion is to try this supplement called Max Virility. I just tried it and so far-- so good. It's helped me with my issues of premature ejaculation and keeping it up if you know what I mean. Don't be embarrassed- instead do something about it. You and your lover will be happier later on;-) Media URL: http://www.maxvirility.net/to-stop-premature-ejaculation/
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