does he like me again?

[sussexgal]

i split up with my boyfriend last year. he ended it for no apparent reason and we parted on quite angry terms. I then found out that he was going through some bad times at home so i decided to just leave it. its now 8 months after the split and we have only just got back on normal speaking terms. I'm pleased we're speaking again and that I have finally got over him. However, hes leaving me signs that make me wonder whether he likes me again. For example, he teases me and he'll comment on my hair; saying it looks good. He's also admitted to a friend of mine that he 'sort of' wishes he didnt end it. Im soooo confused and i need help before i start to really fall for this guy all over again!

[kazzee69]

If I was you I'd ask him out right. You don't get anywhere by guessing (especially where men are conserned)! Speak to him, ask him what he is thinking about your relationship. This is assuming that you want to be with him. If you don't and he really does want you back then mayeb you should make it clear to him before he makes a mistake that makes things awkward for both of you...!

[kazzee69]

I spelt concerned wrong! Just wanted to correct it. xx

[artiigirl]

It sounds that you are over your break up but the fact that you feel your break up wasnt due to a proper fault in the relationship that you want to give it a second chance, if what your friend told you was true that you shouldnt be afraid to confront your ex about his feelings towards you, if he still has feelings for you, then there really isnt a harm in giving the relationship a second go.

[knotleagal]

I had a similar experience to yours. My advice to you is to be honest. I've learned the only two things that can ruin a relationship are selfishness and lack of communication, and it only takes one of those things from one of the people in the relationship to ruin for everyone. So open up the lines of communication like we did: within one email he was back at my door step and 7 years later at 23 years of age I am a very happy newly wed to the very same man. Whatever happens, keep in mind those two things, they've worked for us! I wish you the very best in what ever you choose to do.