Bitter, Twisted, Spiteful B!tch !!

[NoMercy]

My mother's elder sister has always been nasty towards my mother and her twin, and their off-spring - including me. She's always been jealous off how attractive my mother and her twin were and how my grandparents favoured them.

When my Nan was dying earlier this year (when she began to get sick but prior to the diagnosis), my Mum told my Nan to sell her house and go and live with her. The avaricious aunt went berserk and told my Nan to stay in her own home, despite it being quite obvious she couldn't manage by herself. My Nan, despite being very weak, expressed her desire to go and live with my mum and the greedy cow actually sat at her hospital bedside and asked my Nan, "What are you going to do with all your money?" She actually thought that between us, we'd relieve her of her lifesavings and there'd be nothing left to inherit.

I've just found out tonight that when she (my aunt) cleared out my Nan's house, she threw my mother's wedding dress in the bin.

I am not a violent person, but I want to drive up to Wrexham and lunch that woman in the gob !!


Sorry for the gross language, but I am incandescent.

[NoMercy]

Punch, not lunch.

[dotty.]

ooooooooo I think suitable retaliation is required, you need to think carefully and as deviously as possible and get her back

[ummmm]

Jealousy is an evil trait and the two main things that trigger it is looks and money. Console yourself, to feel the emotion is very unpleasant, your aunt is constantly feeling very unhappy all the time.

[askyourgran]

She should be ashamed of herself, has your Nan made a Will? I hope she's left it all to you. It always causes some trouble when houses and contents are divied up. I have to admit I fell out with my brother when my Mum died.

[nungate]

What Dotty said. Revenge is a dish best served cold.
Alternatively, wait for Karma to come round and bite her on the b*m!
But, ask yourself is she worth getting into trouble for?

[seadogg]

Trouble is that ordinary decent folk can't get into the heads of these so and so's and understand why they are so despicable. Looking on the brighter side, when your Nan's affairs are sorted out you wont ever have to deal with this individual again. No good saying not to let it get to you but eventually you will wipe the slate clean NoM. Good fortune.

[NoMercy]

I could give a detailed history but suffice it to say she is a hideous monster.

Revenge would be lovely but the joy would be short-lived, as I would regret sinking to her level. :(

[Prudie]

Sorry NoM I can feel your anger because I lost precious things in a similar way. I haven't spoken to my stepsister who I grew up with since my mother died, the vultures swooped in within days, it was disgusting.

[ruthann58]

revenge is a dish always best served cold ,bide you time nomercy

[Mamyalynne]

I have suffered at the hands of this kind of behaviour and you are right, it is truly despicable. What is even worse those doing it seem to care not a damn.

[dotty.]

oh no, it depends on how subtle the revenge and how remote you are from it, personally I would let it be known that there were beads on the dress that were actually diamonds and were priceless.......

[mccfluff]

nice woman! is your mum ok?

[DTCwordfan]

subpoena her for the return of the wedding dress......especially if it was clear which way in the will it should have gone.

I don't blame you for being mad.

[NoMercy]

My Nan made a Will splitting her Estate equally between her 3 daughter. Currently the proceeds of the house is sitting in the Witch's account and Mum and her twin are waiting for their share.

Many years ago, when I was a young child, the nasty aunt said (about me, my brother and sister), "If it weren't for the fact that they are family, Caroline, Wendy and Tom are not the sort of children I'd let my boys associate with."

Her boys! One turned out pretty well. The other is a toothless, foul-mouthed, work-shy lout who's done time for drug dealing. Yet she still thinks she's better than everyone.

[askyourgran]

She sounds a very sad nasty person,hope the share is sorted out soon then your family can cut all ties with her. Could your mum and your nice aunt ask a solicitor to hurry this along for them.

[NoMercy]

She's coping, fluff. My mother has a lovely nature even when life gets her down. X

[gness]

I know how you feel NoM. Everything from my childhood and early teen years was put in dustbins by my mother when I was fifteen. I've never forgiven her and we didn't speak for years.
Like Nungate says....Karma will come round and bite her on the bum.. it did my Ma.
NoM...you will always be a nicer person that the aunt who would do and say those things........that's a start to calming down. You will calm down, especially with the image of a lunch in the gob......but have a good swear and shout first. Gx

[phleb]

i'll join you, where shall we meet to lunch the stupid cow in the gob etc?

[NoMercy]

I wouldn't say my mother's twin is "nice" but she's nowhere near as spiteful as the elder one.

Elder aunt didn't want Solicitors involved and sorted probate herself. Consequently cheque went to her and now Mum and her twin are waiting for beak features to divide it.

I hope Barmaid see this thread.

[DTCwordfan]

well I would certainly be asking for the solicitor to get the money off your aunt pdq.....

nice one dotty - leading to "did you retrieve the 2 carat wedding diamond that your Dad gave her and she stitched into the wedding dress for good luck in their life together?"