fruitsalad: if you found out you only had one month to live, what would you wish you had experienced that you haven't? Would you want to travel? Eat in the Ritz? Have sex with a stranger?! If you have things you'd love to experience, do them now. You may not get another chance. I never went to America in my student years when my friends invited me over. A few years later I got very bad arthritis and back trouble, and can no longer walk. I wish I had somehow found the money to go back when I was fit enough to appreciate it!