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Fed Up Of Invites To Parties
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Anyone else fed up of being invited to Christmas parties, friend's houses for drinks and get togethers and you feel obliged to go or you're though of as anti social? Well I feel like being anti-social cos I am getting tired of it, cant get time to do what we want to do.
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We made it clear some 10 years ago that on my retirement and relocation, parties, dinner parties and social festivity would be a thing of the past.
It has worked and nobody invites us and happily we are not part of the British exPat society.
Some people, even single people would rather spend Xmas alone, than be exposed to a house full of "merrymakers" with kids shouting and misbehaving.
Had my fill of "socialising" particularly with people in which i had little in common but influential and keeping up my income.
Mr&Mrs sqad plus two cats and a quiet Xmas.
We made it clear some 10 years ago that on my retirement and relocation, parties, dinner parties and social festivity would be a thing of the past.
It has worked and nobody invites us and happily we are not part of the British exPat society.
Some people, even single people would rather spend Xmas alone, than be exposed to a house full of "merrymakers" with kids shouting and misbehaving.
Had my fill of "socialising" particularly with people in which i had little in common but influential and keeping up my income.
Mr&Mrs sqad plus two cats and a quiet Xmas.
But you are anti social, Dave. If we have cottoned on to that your friends must have surely.
For goodness sake just say, No thank you but we appreciate being asked. Then you will have the time to do all you want.
Have you considered that your friends just feel obliged to ask you...maybe they feel sorry for your other half...you being so cheerful....and they will be jumping for joy if you refuse.
What I suppose I have rudely said above is....For god's sake stop being so bloody miserable....or stop and think of people who would love an invite or two.....and are perhaps alone for the first time this Christmas.
For goodness sake just say, No thank you but we appreciate being asked. Then you will have the time to do all you want.
Have you considered that your friends just feel obliged to ask you...maybe they feel sorry for your other half...you being so cheerful....and they will be jumping for joy if you refuse.
What I suppose I have rudely said above is....For god's sake stop being so bloody miserable....or stop and think of people who would love an invite or two.....and are perhaps alone for the first time this Christmas.
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