Did I Do Whats Best For Me. Please Help?

[nicole21]

me and this guy were sort of dating for the past 2-3 months and what I mean by sort of is we acted like a couple but never officially said we were together I guess. he called it official but unofficial, whatever that really means. anyways he suddenly wanted to be friends, which hurt. honestly I feel like I love him but don't really want to admit it, especially now. i refused to be his friend (how could I possibly accept a friendship with someone I want to be with) and told him to just leave me alone. so he did for like a week and then kept pressuring me to be his friend and eventually I gave in. then he started calling me beautiful and crap like that. he even bothered me about talking on the phone and called it a "mini talk date" and when we did talk and I heard his voice it really got to me. which is why yesterday I told him to leave me alone again. I could tell that hes already talking to other girls which hurts even more but I cant stop thinking about him and hes all I want. so I don't know what to do, should I just give up and move on or keep trying or what??? im completely lost here.

[2sp_]

Honestly? Give up, you are only torturing yourself by being friends with him when you want more.

Sounds like he's trying to keep his options open.

[maggiebee]

So............you've told him to leave you alone on a couple of occasions but still feel hurt when he talks to other girls? Maybe he's just trying to move on which you should probably do too.

[murraymints]

Tell him to sling his hook ! ..move on !

[berniecuddles]

give him the elbow,move on,sounds like he has!

[pusskin]

Move on nicole, dont waste any more time with him.
Go out and have some fun with some one who really cares for you.

[Sqad]

\\\\ I could tell that hes already talking to other girls which hurts even more\\\

Well he's getting nowhere with you, so I don't blame him.

\\\me and this guy were sort of dating for the past 2-3 months and \\\

"Sort of dating?"....sorry, you have lost me there.

If you fancy your luck will change, then go ahead "where there's a will there's a way"............if you fell that there is no chance, then give up.

[Prudie]

He's far more likely to fancy you in the future (if that's at all a possibility) if you tell him to sling his hook and ignore him. Appearing needy is a turn-off sadly.

[ummmm]

Move on if you can't bare to be friends with him. After 2 or 3 months you'd know if the relationship was going anywhere. He obviously likes you...but just not in the way that you like him.