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Drink Problem
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Anyone on here ever had, or overcome a drink problem?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Although I was never an alcoholic, I did spend an awful lot of time drinking in my youth. From the age of seventeen, for about six years, I was either working or drinking. I would regularly drive while absolutely legless. On one occasion, I woke in my car, fifteen miles from home, without a single clue as to how I got there. I was sitting in a pool of urine. I said, I was not an alcoholic, but I reckon that if I hadn't met my wife when I did, I certainly would have become one. She gave me a 'me or the drink' ultimatum, and I'm so pleased I chose my good lady.
I know someone who was. He was drinking cider all day, with a straw and bottle from the time he woke up until late through the night. There was a trigger for him doing that. After 8 years (age 16-24), he eventually got a rehab place. He went back to drinking twice- but succeeded the third time. He now hasn't had a drink for ten years.
My father had a pretty big problem with drink and drugs before I was born. He will tell you that he worked very hard to conquer his demons, which I'm sure he did and that he can now drink in moderation, which he can, but I think actually he succeeded by replacing one addiction for another, because he is completely addicted to work. It's an all consuming passion of his and without it he gets irritable and I think if he ever retired he'd have to find something else to replace the work.
Yes, my brother's son-in-law - became an alcoholic after leaving the army having served in Gulf War and been seriously affected by it - Army not interested of course. Currently cured as far as alcoholics can be - they're never truly free of it and must diligently avoid all alcohol - he has had one or two relapses, usually during periods of extended unemployment (his post-army medical condition requires a sympatehtic employer and they're thin on the ground these days) but he does seem to have a settled job now so the family remain optimistic. A great shame because he's a lovely bloke.
I have a male friend who nearly drunk himself to death and also took drugs. He turned his life around 15 years ago after a heart scare. He moved home to get away from dealers and temptation.
To this day he has remained dry and clean and very happy and regrets what a plank he was for wasting his life on booze.
To this day he has remained dry and clean and very happy and regrets what a plank he was for wasting his life on booze.