Models Who Date Average Looking Sport Or Film Stars

[dave50]

When you see a beautiful model with an average looking wealthy sport or film star, everyone makes a joke about how he would never be able to date someone like her if he was just an average bloke. But that is probably true. Do these men realise this and if so how does it make them feel, knowing deep down that these girls are only with them for their fame and fortune. Is it possible for them ever to find true love with one of these girls? Doesn't it result in a very shallow relationship? What are people's thoughts?

[factor-fiction]

>Doesn't it result in a very shallow relationship?
Not necessarily. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and looks aren't everything.

[Sqad]

dave......I would rather be an "average looking poor bloke " anytime and feel the pleasures of "true love" rather than be physically linked to these long legged beauties.

I watch the Jeremy Kyle Show and think..."How lucky to be a part of that society."...........

Good questions dave....

[agchristie]

Agree with ff - was it Kate Winslet or Sophie Dahl who said 'beauty comes from within'?

[mccfluff]

they might be with them because they like/fancy them. I know quite a few average blokes whose gf's are stunners. its not always about the looks/money/status - yes sometimes it most def is - but not always

[maggiebee]

Always thought that about Peter Stringfellow etc. If it wasn't for their millions would they have so many young beautiful girls hanging on their arms. Maybe, but I guess not!

[sandyRoe]

Mrs Merton's question to Debbie McGee comes to mind, 'What is it about Paul's millions that first attracted you to him?'

[Hypognosis]

@Sandy,

you've paraphrased that quote. The exact words deliver the puncline a lot more tangentially:
"So, Debbie, what was it that first attracted you to the millionaire, Paul Daniels?"

[Old_Geezer]

Hmmm.... everyone looks for something else in a partner. Why would you worry if it was your success or looks or personality, as long as you got what you wanted out of it ? True love grows over time with the effort put in daily over the years. I don't think the thing that brought you together need necessarily affect that. Maybe if the individuals are 'shallow'.

[Hypognosis]

@O_G

// Why would you worry if it was your success or looks or personality, as long as you got what you wanted out of it ? //

The worry is that the success turns to failure, or the looks go or the personality changes in the way that the partner dislikes.

//True love grows over time with the effort put in daily over the years. I don't think the thing that brought you together need necessarily affect that. Maybe if the individuals are 'shallow'.//

If the attractive person chooses an insecure career path (model/actor/actress, for example, it makes sense for them to pair with a skilled/secure/stable employment partner. Sportspeople successful enough to retire in their 30s have the resources to raise a family and the physical fitness to keep up with the tykes.

[boxtops]

I don't give it any thought at all, tbh. They live in a different world to me.

[Old_Geezer]

Any relationship could turn into failure if one doesn't pay attention.

[Hypognosis]

It might seem 'shallow' to uncouple as soon as an aspect of the relationship is found wanting - money, affection, fidelity, fair share of parenting effort but if these were what the original attractions were then, as soon as they wane, you can't blame the partner for taking the kids and seeking one or more of them elsewhere (money being the most essential of these).

Keeps the divorce business happy, I guess. :-/

[ludwig]

I'm not sure it's any less shallow to be attracted to someone because of the way they look than because they're rich or famous.

[Hypognosis]

But isn't that the normal way people choose a partner?

To have someone you're not initially attracted to 'grow on you', personality-wise, you'd have to be working with them or have some other regular pretext for conversation, no?

[joko]

although many are indeed just sugar daddies, i dont think you can say that just because someone is not very attractive, they cant be loved by a pretty person

its probably more that the circles they mix in allow them to meet these glamorous women in the first place.

think of all the utterly gorgeous men and women who are not famous or wealthy ... they dont all meet wealthy people mainly because of geography and social circles.

i have had boyfriends that actually if i saw them in the street i would consider them unattractive - and one in particular i would even say was 'ugly' ... but to me, at the time, i loved him.

[jeffa]

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/sparks/uglyguyswithbeautifulgirls.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pngPsrpRfwM

[joko]

if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife and from my personal point of view get an ugly girl to marry you ...

what a song

[Prudie]

My thoughts are they are not necessarily looking for true love - but neither are lots of people when they get into relationships.