My Beautiful Boy - Possible Neuromuscular Disorder

[BeaverDiva]

I'm falling apart here. my son has always struggled with getting up from the floor, climbing etc - but just thought it was down to him being so tall for his age (4 1/2 years old). Physically and mentally he's fine other than a bit of struggling with some movements. we went for a podiatry appointment 6 months ago and were told that his calf muscles were under-developed (probably to do with his height) and to work on building them up. we started him in weekly swimming lessons etc. the follow up appointment was yesterday and we were sent straight from there to have blood tests for neuromuscular disorders and a genetics test. I'm broken. I've researched other issues which I had always thought were unrelated (loud snoring and sleep apnea) and it appears that these are also common in children with such problems. I'm sitting here waiting for the hospital to phone with the blood test results. what do I do?

[Mosaic]

Hang on in there. Lad needs you now and in the future, so deep breaths, mental ciggie, cup of coffee. You don't know till you know. It might be a very slight issue. They will help both of you cope. Hugs.

[Gavmacp]

My thoughts are with you! All I can say is try and keep strong but in some ways that is rubbish when dealing with your own!

[Butterbun]

Sorry to hear this, you just have to be strong and hope for the best.

[grasscarp]

Thinking of you Beaver and your son. Let us know what happens and really hope that things turn out well.

[Gavmacp]

On a practical level keep your own records, maybe on computer, hospital appointments etc. This way you will keep track of everything.

[Old_Geezer]

You state it is "just" a possibility at present. Easier said than done I know, but try not to assume the worst. Do whatever you need to, to keep calm and await the result. Researching stuff can scare the life out of you, let the experts tell you what they conclude.

[mallyh]

my thoughts are with you xxx

[mazie]

Thinking about you Beaver and hoping for positive results. Try and be strong xxx

[Samuraisan]

Be strong Beaver, your little boy needs you to be. Good luck.

[Mamyalynne]

It hurts us the most to think of our children in difficulty - wait for the results then seek out as much help,support and advice as you can.


Difficult but you will get through.

Take care.

[BeaverDiva]

Hi all

Just wanted to thank you all for your words of support. I didn't hear from the hospital yesterday but have spoken with them this morning and the blood tests were normal - so we're not looking at any life-altering or degenerative conditions. To say I'm relieved is a huge understatement! I found speaking very difficult yesterday as I would just burst into tears if I got anywhere near the subject, so to be able to come on here and put my thoughts out there, and to receive such kind feedback, was a real comfort. Many thanks to you all! xxxx

[Retrochic]

Fantastic news! You must be shattered after yesterday. I hope they find out the reasons for his symptoms soon and can get some treatments in place.

[anneasquith]

great news,. :)

[mallyh]

oh thats great news for your son and family xxxx

[chelle7272]

Glad to hear it was good news :) x

[1ozzy]

I have my fingers crossed for you Beaver. When my youngest was 4 years old he was diagnosed with "spina bifida" and mild cerebral palsy.
He is now a "go get 'em" 18 year old about to complete his schooling and take the world on.

Hope every thing works out OK.

[Old_Geezer]

☺

[grasscarp]

Best possible news Beaver. You had us all worrying - I said a quick prayer!

[Gavmacp]

I went to pick up friends kids from school (aged 8 and 10). They were no where to be seen and to say I freaked out is an understatement. It must be even worse if one of your own.
They were having a meeting in the toilets!!!

[grasscarp]

how "inconvenient" Gavmacp!