Potential Stroppy Mare Alert...

[hippyhoppy]

Are you sitting comfortably.... last week the boyfriend said he had to take his mother out on a 'birthday weekend' so I was dispached home, only to read on Facebook he was in the pub with his mates by 3pm on the Saturday.... I diligently rang him to be informed he was taking his daughter Christmas shopping in Chester on Monday (fair enough), but he would come to see me on Tuesday as we wouldn't have seen each other for nearly two weeks... Facebook remarks galore re eating at a fancy resturant and drinking copious amounts of wine (again.. fair enough)... So rang him yesterday morning and 'oh.. I'm too poorly to travel'.... If you're still awake/reading.. we're meant to be going to Cornwall on a mini break on Monday... So donning my 'petulant child' hat, I sent him a text yesterday and said, 'if you can't be arsed to come here, I don't think I can be arsed to come to you on Sunday'.... Not heard a peep since.. I trust Cornwall is a very dim prospective... (happy birthday Hippy :-( )

[pixie374]

Why lie, then?

[ummmm]

I can't see where he lied?

[EcclesCake]

What lies?

The whole situation is being over analysed IMHO.

[pixie374]

Ok..
I thought he was in the pub with his mates when he said he was taking mother out?

[Mamyalynne]

If your relationship is normally good then I'm sure this hiccup will sort.

If this type of fraught situation is regular you may both need to sit down and discuss where you are heading.

[Sqad]

How many generations does it take for women to interpret the signs of a "kiss off?"

He has lost interested in you.

[ummmm]

He might have taken his mother out for lunch and then went to the pub.

Again - we know nothing about him. Mother could have made other plans for after their lunch.

He's hardly trying to hide stuff if it's being posted on FB.

[pixie374]

54 generations, sqad

[pixie374]

Yes, ummmm... I didn't realise it was at a different time. Hippy will know what she's been told, anyway.

[elliemay1]

Let us know if he gets in touch but whatever you do DONT contact him!

[ummmm]

Why on earth not? They aren't teenagers! That's petty game playing and often backfires!

[-SharonA-]

That is true, what is needed here is some communication and straight talking.

[Islay]

Is it any wonder so many people are alone if they are willing to turn their backs on one disagreement. It does not sound like hippyhoppy gave him a chance to explain and why is he a liar?

[viv41]

Good point Sqad.

[DTCwordfan]

there's a pattern here and Sqad is right.....time to bail out.

[Togo]

You ladies should never trust a bloke who puts his Mother and Daughter first.

[Psybbo]

Oh give the bloke a break

[ummmm]

Scandalous isn't it??!

Pattern of what exactly? Taking his mother out or taking his daughter out? And please don't tell me you've never had a hangover, DT.

[-SharonA-]

Togo is talking rubbish.

[ummmm]

I think that's called sarcasm...