Virginity

[Autumn_Carie]

I am 17 and a virgin ,I have a boyfriend who is 18 and we have been dating for 6 months now ,he wants to have sex with me this december and I told him I want to remain a virgin for a few more years ,and he still insists on doing it,I trust him amd I am comfortable with with,what should I do?

[Bathsheba]

Carie....weren't you asking us for money a couple of days ago, or am I thinking of another 17 year old?

x x x

[scorpiojo]

Morning, Baths ;o)

[Bathsheba]

Mornin' Jo...best to be ever-vigilant where possible ;)

x x x

[scorpiojo]

Yep ;)

Why do you want us to read that, A_C?

[Khandro]

The first thing you should do is learn that December requires a capital D,
then you should tell him no!

[Autumn_Carie]

I feel so unwelcomed here I thought I found a place to get answers and decent advice instead I found a place with people three times my age who some are full of critisism and doubt me

[Peter Pedant]

yup I am another doubter carie

but I was a virgin so long ago ( like three times your age or 51 y ago ) that I cant remember if I agonised on the internet about it or not

did you get any money by the way ?

[Mamyalynne]

I don't think you've been treated too badly - our answers to this question have more or less said the same thing - ie your body your choice.

If asking us for money was a joke/prank then maybe some of us never did that as teenagers , I know I didn't.

If you feel doubted and mistreated here perhaps find a teenage based forum which may be more up to speed with your style of thinking.

[Autumn_Carie]

I agree with you Mamya ,Times have changed and there was no internet back then

[Auxarcs]

Its your body. If he cant honor your wishes then its time to move on. Any guy whontries to push you into going against your own best interest isnt worth keeping. When a guy tries to push you into sex all he is thinking about is himself, he isnt thinking about you. A guy who cares about YOU will honor your wishes.