I think that's just how it is,Tilly, unfortunately. I think we're meant to keep our fat around the belly area to protect any children we might have.
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I hope you feel well again soon.
Because that's what 'life' does. Instead of being in a rational world, reality ensures whatever you most don't want is almost guaranteed to be the way it works, and what you most want rarely happens.
You should find it drops from your limbs early too.
I think that's just it, Tilly. We evolved in this way for a reason. If we didn't we wouldn't be here. I know it's tough, but i don't think there's another option.