Should I Approach Him?

[Candyrain98]

So basically theirs this guy at my college that I have a crush on for a minute. It’s a little unusual for me because I’m not really into guy because I’m a lesbian but theirs just something about him that just attracted me. I honestly never felt so wildly attracted to a male like this before, not even a female. It’s getting to the point where my heart drops when I see him & all I think about is him. I really want to approach him but I’ve been having so many doubt. He’s white and I’m black, and I’m just not sure he will be into me. Also he has like a tumor on his face that really make his appearance look different. Normally when people see him they stare and it really disappoints me. I see pass insecurities of others and I think that’s why I’m so attracted to him. Long story short I want to approach him but so many things are running through my head. But something is telling me to just go for it.

[Peter Pedant]

if he says no
I look like Quasimodo - so will I do ?
[prepared to gtravel]

[kvalidir]

Why not, what do you have to lose? Try to find a way of getting into his circle of friends, ask several people if they want to do something including him, spend a little time with him and then if you hit it off go in for the kill. Good luck x

[MallyJ]

Something is telling you right.....just go for it. You will doubtless make a new friend and maybe your forever love. Who knows? You won't unless you give it a go. Good luck.

[Old_Geezer]

You sound bi to me.
Go approach him, why should others take the risk approaching you if you aren't prepared to take the same risk approaching others ?
You don't have to be blatant immediately, just see if you can strike up a friendship first.

[RainbowRafiki]

You should approach him. If you don't know how, you should try finding out something that he's good at that you need help with, and ask him for help. I think you'll do great. Good luck!

[waterboatman]

Talk to him.