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First sign of madness?
I talk to myself...alot. It started about 6 years ago with insignificant mutterings like, "think I'll have something to eat" and has steadily escalated into full blown dialogue. For instance, if I am at home alone, I will quite happily talk out loud about whatever it is I am thinking about. It could be about an incident at work and how I feel about it, or plans for the weekend or whatever. What is a little scary is that when I am talking out loud, I often chuckle to myself or laugh as I'm recounting a funny incident to myself. If somebody were to overhear, they would think there was somebody else in the room and I was relaying a story to them. They would also think me quite insane. Furthermore, I've recently had to stop myself from "reflecting" out loud in public. Basically, I am vocal with my thoughts. But this can't be normal behavoir, am I going mad?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I talk to myself, in my mind, all the time. I always have done and can't imagine any other way of living. When I'm on my own I have conversations with myself (or sometimes with several different personalities within myself) out loud. This can, of course, be somewhat embarrassing when I've failed to notice that I'm not really alone!
Yes, other people do regard me as 'intelligent' and yes, they also regard me as emotionally cold. (I've never grieved for the loss of anyone, including my parents, and I can't even really understand the concept of 'grief' - it just seems stupid to me).
So, talking to yourself can indicate some positive characteristics and (by the standards of most people) some negative ones as well. Or maybe you're just going barmy after all!
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Chris
Been doing it all my life (over 50 years) and I'm not in a nut house yet!
I think it might also be partially a sign of having an organised mind, because I do it at work and at home. It's just a way of getting your thoughts straight without consciously realising it. Habit forming! I bet that when you're reading a book, you read either aloud or as if you were reading it aloud but in your head.
lol woofgang!
Yes I mumble away too but the other morning I had a really good rant as I've not been feeling well & I find to grumble out loud sometimes helps & gets things into perspective. My little dog often looks around the room as if to say 'did someone just come in?'
I tend to meet some lovely people in supermarkets who are talking to themselves, I just can't stop myself butting into their 'conversations'!
I can also relate very much to being emotionally cold, it's not that I'm not emotional but for example when my Grand Mother recently passed away I didn't feel sad or emotional about it. I think in part thats because I'm comfortable with the concept of death, once you die thats it.