I've just been dumped!

[joe1]

Crazy about her - but been told we can only be work mates from now on.

Whats the best way to get over it??? Bitch

[Dreaming]

Act like you are not interested in her anymore. My ex tried it on me. .............

[**Clem**]

Do all of the thngs that you couldn't do when you were with her. NOT talking about sleeping with the first girl you meet, but would definitely recommended going out, getting drunk, talking to whoever you want, getting in whenever you want, etc, etc.

That's all I can say really. Everyone knows who ****** it is to want someone who doesn't want you. Saying that though if you DO want her back, would definitely agree with acting like you don't care - whenever my boyfriend dumped me, as soon as I'd started to move on, he'd come crawling back. Good luck whatever you decide to do x

[**Clem**]

...sorry, that was meant to say 'everyone knows how *hitty it is'

[curiosity]

I think you answered your own question in your final word
Good Luck with lesser bitches.

[joe1]

Thanks to all. Glad I'm not the only one - although it feels like it. Can't get her out of my head - who the Hell invented love?? :(

[bigveg]

• subscribe her mobile number to loads of porno messaging services


• show the naked pics you have of her to her/your friends


• make it well known she doesnt shave


• download an anonymous email program and send her menacing threats


• crack on to any sisters or female relations she may have


• if you work with her, rumours will spread nicely

[joe1]

You haven't understood how I feel about her bigveg - can't be that nasty.

Thanks anyway - will get over it I guess.

[Fran666]

As a female, you acting like you're pining away won't do you any favours- I hate to be brutal but it'll make you look weak and women hate weakness. You need to act like you're okay with it (not in an insensitive, it-meant- nothing way) but whatever you do, don't look mopey.

Besides that, tell yourself how great you are and spoil yourself. Go out and get rat-arsed with your friends- even if you don't feel like it, it totally works. +

You know what they say- without the bitter the sweet ain't as sweet.

[WendyS]

Don't be nasty about her - there's no point and it won't really make you feel much better. Go the other way and be so damned nice that she might start to regret it. Perhaps she's too ambitious to want her work reputation dogged by a personal relationship, in which case, if she doesn't value you that much, she's snot the right one for you anyway.

[twinkle2]

act completely normal and not phased by it all, its very very hard to do but trust me, im a girl and i know how we work, 100% garanteed to get a result/response!

[copippin]

Just tell yourself that she is not the only "fish in the sea" and there is bound to be someone even better for you.Don't consider revenge,it never really works.

[Dreaming]

I know its difficult Joe 1, but really try and put her out of your head. Go out with some friends and have a laugh. It will do you good. Honest.