Prudie, there are quite a few people on here who are not what they say they are -big time. I don't mean the little things, which can be forgiven, I mean big things . I used to care -now I don't - I am mellowing and think if anyone who needs to invent a Child/husband/ profession/ health issue blah blah must be quite lonely and if AB fulfills something missing then that's ok -as long as they don't upset people who believe everything they say. I may be a lot of things, but I do live where I say I live, do do what I say I do etc. People do trip themselves up, and unfortunately sometimes I can't help but point this out ( New Years resolutions....nah!)