Firstly, it might actually be a dental problem, rather than one with your ear. (Yes, I know that sounds odd but, trust me, it's case of 'been there, done that' for me, which makes me suggest it!)
i have pain in the ear and mouth after getting two big dirty back upper and lower molars removed yesterday, lower part of my mouth is quite swelled so just sticking with the painkillers - do they work - I haven't a baldy - nothing is working for me tonight.
As to the problem in hand I tend to agree with buenchicho - I had a terrible pain on side of face and turned out I had a mouth abscess....... is there any way u can see a dentist to get checked out at all??
i didnt think it was mouth problem as its on the ear bit that sticks out from the face (its so difficult to describe!) But I've just had a text saying I'm positive for Covid so its probably something to do with that!!
Darley.........I have to comment,as your description said it all and gave the diagnosis.
The ear has a lobe,an outer ear (not the lobe)and an inner ear each having it's own nerve supply and blood supply.
Pain in the lobe is Never dental or sinus in origin...never and is always psychosomatic (of unknown organic cause).