To all men, What do you find sexy on a woman?

[Jennykins]

When you see a woman on the street on in a store and she ketches your eye's, what do you find sexy about her? is it a skinny body ? big booty? long hair? plump breast? I would like to know what men seem to perfer.. Thanks!

[noxlumos]

Physically.... long hair, nice smile, nice eyes. Personality wise she has to be kind, funny, not take herself too seriously ( or me) and intelligent.I don't really mind what a woman looks like, but I hate girls who clearly think they are "it" BIG turnoff,and those girls who seem to get a kick out of being nasty in order to look cool.Be nice:)

[Jennykins]

Thanks Noxlumos! Its nice to here that the hoochi ho looking chicks are "nasty"

[PhilBy]

Must agree with noxlumas....... The 'I am it' are one big turn off! As are large women wearing adidas, walking up the High Street........eating.

Personally I find all natural female forms sexy from the very thin to large. Once again my personal prference: Thin looks very sexy with a casual look, the larger woman looking more appealing smartly dressed and well presented.

[PhilBy]

oops, noxlumos :-)

I am wearing the wifes glasses at the moment because I sat on mine 8-)

[Mike Dirnt!]

personally-i look for a good personality and a charming smile. Good looks etc. is a bonus

[logman]

For me, the very first thing I notice is the hair, long soft brown usualy catches my eye, but any colour can look fantastic, and if she turns around and has beautiful eyes and a smile to match, then thats made my day !

[seaborn]

I have to totally agree with everything that has already been said here � The Prima Donna�s, Footballer�s Wife Wannabe�s, Party Animals & �oh my god, I haven�t seen myself in a mirror for 20mins � what am I gonna do?!� kind of women just need to stay well away and go back to their scheming to find the next sad idiot to try and con with their bodies, looks and zero, air head personalities!!! � (felt good to get that off my chest!!)

So what do I look for in fleeting glance? � Firstly it�s hair, short blond or long flowing red always does it for me personally (I know, total different ends of the spectrum) Next its eyes, colour isn�t important � but some women do have what I call scary eyes (you know what I mean, fried eggs come to mind). Height is also important for me, I�m 5�9� (not big, but not small) but women taller than me can be a bit of a turn off, esp. when they purposely wear 3-4� heals to accentuate their height!! � If I�ve got far enough to notice that much about them, chances are there will be an attraction there. I find the Tube is also a very interesting place, as you get to see if the women is reading � if so, what? What you�re reading says a lot about who the person in the outside world or is she cocooned in her own little MP3 world?! Brains, Wit & Charm always come before looks - Am I asking too much? It�s no wonder I�m still single!! I�m also a great outdoorsman, so common interests do help.

- My god, I feel like I�m on some kind of lonely hearts dating site!!!
So, let�s turn the tables then Jennykins and friends � What is it women look for??

[tigga]

For me, its not just any one thing in particular, a girl can have all kinds of thongs which will catch my eye - visually all of the above, nice face, bum, hair, legs etc. but it can even be a sexy voice that grabs the attention first.

Although the main thing for me is a girl who makes an effort in her appearance - a nice looking girl dressed and groomed well is ten times more attractive than a stunner in a tracky !.

[tigga]

Things - not thongs !!!

[jake-the-peg]

A sharp mind and eyes that light up when she talks

- is that too vague?

[Loosehead]

I prefer the natural look, ie not ott on the slap, slightly full figure, what you might call voluptuous, think Geri Halliwell (not when she was thin) rather than Victoria Beckham now, big turnoffs are:

1) plastic breasts

2) Smoking, doesn't matter if she's miss world, if I see her smoking then uuuuggggghhhh, especially roll ups, disgusting.

3) too much make up

4) the "I am it" as Nox says.

5) Thick as 2 short planks (think Jade Goody here) but don't realise they are.

6) Stick insects need not apply

Initially looks are helpful but it's personality and attitude that keep me interested. I hate girls who are bullies, who survey the room criticising all the other girls.

Well Jen do you fit in there? Fancy a date?

[andy-hughes]

It's the eyes. The way a woman can look at a man can speak volumes, and that's what turns me on first. A nice face, it doesn't have to be pretty, but just attractive in its own way. A nice figure is nice, but I'm not fussed. Nice limbs are always attractive, and if I really fancy a woman, I like to hear her speak, and how she smells - a nice voice and scent are the clinchers. A French accent does things too.

Assuming we get into conversation, a sense of intelligence is essential - not accademic intelligence, just good conversation, and a sense of humour is essential.

[WoWo]

Personally I'm not fussy, anything goes.

I'm not overly keen on skinny women, I like a bit of meat on the bones as it were. As tigga says any women who makes a bit of effort with their appearence are on to a winner.

[Grunty]

I agree with most of what the others have said. Personality and being interesting are probably most important.

All the same, I'm not sure whether I would like the sort of woman who would be interested in someone like me.

[DMA]

Im a leg man. but the eyes are what really does it. eyes that you feel you cud drown in...........

[david small]

Clean, healthy, positive attitude, and a smile go a long way. Pretty face is nice too. Not obese, but not skinny.

Must not smoke except when on fire. Bonus would be if she was intelligent, and well read.

[kipchik]

So all you guys are on this thread then?Wondered where you'd all gone.Well can we start with hunky guys now and what we women like in a man?

[bekah]

What I find sexy in a man:

• Confidence (but not cocky)


• A nice bear hug - No tin ribs


• Somebody that doesnt take themselves too seriously


• A man that is willing to give chase, I know it is difficult with a woman like me, but desperation is the biggest turn off ever!

Most of all - be yourself, nothing worse then a fake!!!

[zara 4]

I agree,no cocky "I am " lads,yuk! Not skinny,but not muscly either, must be faithful,funny, kind,no blondes or blue eyes,i like dark hair dark eyes,though i don't mind deep green eyes,Must also be rugged and definately NO suits,don't like men in suits prefer your 'casual,slightly rough,type,jeans,leathers,,,etc

[seaborn]

Why Zara 4 - We sound perfectly matched :-)

I'm Italian/Irish, short dark hair, green eyes & very rugged - I'm an International rescue agent for the British Government, so no suits here!! (& my mates keep telling me i smell like Heather of the moores - Think Heathcliff in Wuthering Heights)

Where have you been all my life??