40th birthday

[mum to be]

Hi Im wondering what to do about my 40th in a couple of months.You see Im expecting my third child two weeks before I turn 40 How scarey hey, Im not sure what to do, I would love to chuck a party but two weeks after is too soon And then again money is a factor, And I dont want to have it at home where the mess is made. Should I have one or just have a quite one , Any suggestions guys aussie mum

[gedtagius]

Strewth girl - you are one brave bundle of fun! Not only are you facing motherhood again as a 'mature mum' you are wondering how to fit a 'milestone' birthday celebration into the scenario! You just have to work out how to approach this problem in the order that it is important to you.

A hardened drinker would advise you to delay the birth somehow, put a 'pass either side' sign front & back & join in the fun in a nearby 'Pub' where someone else could clear up! (Getting others to pay or food & drink re economy - not forgetting a large tarp in case the baby wants to joi in!)

A concerned fellow 'Mum' would say scrap the birthday & make sure the 'delivery' is safe & successful & that you & your new baby are the most important thing!

A difficult decision & one that only you & your conscience can make. Whatsoever you decide to do - I echo again - you are one brave girl & I hope all goes well. Try & keep us posted as to how you resolve all these probs & I'm sure the thoughts, if not prayers, of everyone on here shall 'go with you'.

[the>one]

i was going to suggest you 'have a knees up'...but thats what got you into trouble in the first place! ;-)

[gedtagius]

M.T.B (That is in fact one classy name but I bet you feel more like a Battleship than a Motor Torpedo Boat!)

Forgive the comment from the poster after me! He obviously is a refugee from that low life site 'Cerescape' LOL. They have absolutely no manners whatsover LMFAO!