Why is Love so confusing

[jibjab]

I recently broke up with my ex girlfriend of 2 years, she phoned me up on the weekeedn and I found out that she had snogged another guy at a party (which made my mind go into overdrive and assume she must have done more with this guy). Anyway, i then went out on saturday and kissed another girl just out of spite of the way my ex has got over me so quickly.

She keeps sending me mixed messages, i told her i was leaving home to move to preston now i dont have ties and she begged me not too, but she still doesnt want anything to do with me???

I have a funny feeling she has been seeing some exes since we split up.......

and also she seems like she is over me because i get no calls or textss whereas I have been in pieces this weekend imagining her with another man.

WHY OH WHY DO WE DO THIS TO OURSELVES

[Maggimae]

I guess its a case of that although she feels she may not want you now, she still wants you to want her! Im sure she hasnt got over you though as quickly as you think, she's told you about this kiss to get a reaction out of you. I dont think you can spend two years of your life with someone and get over it in a weekend. Playing games really does mess with your head though, so perhaps you should try and keep away from her until your more emotionally balanced to cope with her games! Good luck x

[alijangra]

All I can say is its selfish of her not to want you to get on with your own life. Maybe it does alot for her ego that you will hang around waiting for her. My advice is go to Preston and start a new life. Try imagining yourself with another woman instead of her with another man. Good luck and I hope you find the strength within to move on xxx

[Cockney_si]

Did you break it off with her, if so then why are you worrying so much, it must have been a difficult decision for you to make and I'm sure you had your reasons...don't get sucked into the cycle of sleeping with everyone that shows an interest just to 'get back at her' that's just sad.

If she broke it of with you then she's just proved what she's like to you by going off with god knows who and then telling you and you're better off rid.

[!ightoftruth]

My advice is simpe. Youve already had the idea of moving so cut all ties with this guys and start afresh in preston. If you don't get out now things will only get worse.

[helliebobs]

And I don't mean to make light of your situation but you'll be very welcome in Preston if you do decide to move here!!