First love...

[whiskeysheri]

Who was your first love? Did it last? How did you meet? Is there anything like it ever again?

WS xxx

[kazzianne]

My first love was when I was 15 - I adored him!! We only went out for a few months,but I cant remember why we split up.

Then....3 months ago out of the blue I get an email from him!! He spotted me on Friendsre-united .He said that at school he was told I

[kazzianne]

I didnt want to see him again and so he drifted away!! Then he said that he wished he had stayed with me as he had really loved me.

Asked to meet me again,but dont know what to do as I have a boyfriend.

He also is managing Director for a well known company!!

[loobie]

Wow Kazz, that is a cool little story. what a situation you are in! I wouldn't know what to do. Although the same thing kinda happened to me. got hurt by someone, got with my boyf and three weeks later old one said he thought he loved me. i told him to p*ss off even though I was tempted. Met up with old one a few months later as mates and i felt nothing for him. So glad i stuck with my bloke, been together nearly 5 years.

[Pippa68]

I was also 15 when I met my first love at a teen disco. We were together 18 months until he dumped me for someone else (I still hate her with a vengeance!)

He got in touch with me, also through FR. We still email each other every now & then and laid a few ghosts to rest. He also owns his own company (is it the same guy, kazzianne ;o) LOL

He insists that he has only ever loved 2 people in his life ~ his current girlfriend and me...ahhhhhh. at least he never loved the girl he dumped me for!

Yes, I did feel it again..not with my first husband but with my current one. Still get the butterflies...but I will never forget my first love...ever.

[kevshakry]

My first love was my ex. i was standing at my gate and he pretended he was lost and ask me to direct him to a friends house. Stupid me followed him to the house. the next day he definitely wasnt lost (lol).

i am now in a new relationship the romance was exceptional never ever nothing liked it. - notice my past tense. (lol)

[kazzianne]

Funny thing girls is that we emailed each other pics of what we look like now,and he looks EXACTLY the same,but older.

God I hope its not the same guy- is he blonde??

[caz21]

I think my first real love is the guy i'm with! i never ever felt this way about anyone else (and if you read my post the other day he still dont know! ha!)

My first boyfriend i thought i loved i was with for two years. He was a strange one! complete nutter, kept hacking into peoples computers, got up to something fraudulant and i ended up being in court with him so he didnt go to prison! i found a letter two days ago with instructions on who to phone if he got sent down! he didnt he went to uni! and proceeded to dump me a few weeks later after i was gonna move to be with him too! i look back in amazement at how daft i was! We met in a bar when i was 17 and he was snogging my friend half the evening too! GOD!! the question on everyones lips..... WHY???

[stylinsam]

my first love is still my love now and is my only love we met at school at the age of about 14 but didnt get together until we were 17 and weve been 2gether ever since and i absolutly adore him x

[Fat Boy]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Question230178.html

[butterfly23]

My 1st love was when I was 23, I met him on a night out in a different town, but knew in an instant he was the one for me and vice versa, 2 months later marriage cropped up in conversation and 11 months down the line he proposed despite it being a long distance relationship.

It ended tragically after 18 months when he passed away in a car crash. This year would have been our wedding. I know that I won't ever love anyone in the same way again (I'd be too scared to anyway), though do hope that I will find love again, and so the search continues...

[whiskeysheri]

Aw, butterfly, I'm so sorry! So many hugs to you and lots of love xxx

[4getmenot]

butterfly23 that is such a moving story. Maybe you were meant to meet that night and although it only lastest a short time I'm sure theres a lifetime of memories there. :-) You will find love again x

[unruliejulie]

My first love was called Jason and we met at school. (15) We went through a lot of rough times together, including the death of my Dad at 16. I ended up living in his house with him and his Dad and when we were 18 we got a flat together. Unfortunately, i outgrew him and felt i needed to see a bit more of life. For years after i regretted this decision because he was the kindest most thoughtful lad i have ever known. Maybe if we had met later in our lives it would have worked. Saying that though, i wouldn't change a thing about what we shared.Its very difficult to put into words about how important he was to me. We were together for nearly 5 years though and he will always hold a very special place in my heart because of the things we went through together.He was my rock at a very difficult time and for that, i will never forget him. He is now happily married (i assume) to the girl he met just after we parted and has 3 gorgeous kids. I have seen him twice since, once in the hairdressers where i work as unbeknown to me, he had been coming to the Barber (attatched to our salon) for the past 3 years.No longer comes in now though but still lives in the villiage i work in! I have only ever wished that he found lots of happiness in his life, as i did! Cheers Whiskeysheri, now i have a tear in my eye!!!! :'-)

[dancealot13]

butterfly23- I can't imagine. I just can't imagine the pain and heartache you feel. My stomach turned when I read your story. That is everyones fear, loosing the person you love. Stay strong butterfly.

xxcheer 'to new beginings'

[kazzianne]

Butterfly - what a terrible thing to happen.Im so sorry.I couldnt even begin to imagine how I would feel if that happened to me.

Big hug to you.xx

[unruliejulie]

Same from me butterfly. I could have lost my now husband 5 years ago in a car crash and you realise how much someone means to you. I hope your life brings you someone to love and who loves you equally. Im sure you will find it in time when your pain has healed a little bit. Good luck to you x

[dancealot13]

Ws-

I met my first and only love when I was 18 and working as a waitress at Denny's. He walked in the restaurant with a friend of his, and he simply took my breath away. If someone at that moment told me I was going to be with him for many many years...(if not forever)- I would have just fainted. He literally took the breath away from me, and I just looked at him in aww.

He was driving a hot sports car, and the other waitress that was working said "Is that your car out there?", and he said "Yes". Then he turned to me and said, "You wanna go for a ride sometime?" AAAHHHH!!! lol I smiled and said "Sure" lol ;) He called me two days later and picked me up. We've been dating ever since, it's been close to 6 years now. We don't live together, but we have in the past when we were living in NYC. He has his own house that he just bought and we talk about marriage, but honestly I think he's a bit nervous about it though. He's 27 and Im only 24...so we're taking our time. I want him to ask me though. I hope he asks me .

He's my heart.

[loobie]

Butterfly so so sorry to read that. I'm sure it will take time to find someone else and move on from those dreadful circumstances. I wish you all the very very best in life. Take care of yourself darling xxx

[Eric Git]

My first and only love is my husband. We met when on my 15th Birthday and have been together ever since (I'm 37 and he's 40) we have one 18yr old daughter. He still syas that he thinks of me as being 15, perhaps I haven't gorwn up yet!

[Rubyrose]

First love was when I was 16. He was my manager. He was 19. We were together for 5yrs. Broke up 5 months ago and No..I don't think there will ever be anything like it ever again. I think my future relationships will feel more grown up though.