The cursed friend zone

[lightoftruth]

whenever i try to get a girlfriend i never seem to put myslef across the right way and always up in the feared "friend zone."

I need help. Any and all advice appreciated

[alijangra]

You are being too nice. Play hard to get and give them a challenge, and flirt outrageously.

[Ward-Minter]

Lay your cards on the table. Say "If I wanted friends I would join amateur dramatics" or something equally as good.

Let them know what your intentions are. Remember, contary to the popular idiom, most birds actually like the mans' intentions to be wholly dishonourable.

If the above fails, whip your pecker out and say "Hey Baby!!!"

[dot.hawkes]

wear a white shirt and black trousers and a wedding ring

[dot.hawkes]

WM watch the tele!

[*Zeus*]

Tell them you are expecting a large inheritance

[dot.hawkes]

Zeus is not wrong, wedding ring means someone else chose u first so it's a challenge, inheritance means, errrrrrrr, new shoes, decent meals, maybe the odd bit of bling,

[bobtheturkey]

ugly blokes always end up as friends :)

[dot.hawkes]

you listen to my mate Bob, he knows how it goes!

[rugeleyboy]

stop being such a pushover, women might not admit it but they like a challenge?

perhaps your being to nice,you should take tips of myles76, you should do exactly the opposite to him!!

He pretends to be the perfect male and then sets up a woman user name and tells the whole world what a lovely bloke he is??........ all while sitting at home watching porn!!............or is that me?

[bobtheturkey]

wonder when the greenies will appear its great when you know who it is :)

[jon1968]

Stop being such a woos - you're desperate and everyone can tell.

Oh, and it's not just you Rugely - it�s some student writing a paper on �how gullible people are on the internet� or some such!

[dot.hawkes]

don't be cynical Roberto!!!!!!!!!! Oh, women like a bit of Latin.

[bobtheturkey]

special mention to my nerdy friend in IT and his knowledge of ip addresses, oh and sorry light of truth i will stay out your post now

[lightoftruth]

I know that people like to have a chat here on B&S and i would have to agree with Jon in that i am indeed getting desperate.

In regards to the whole dating world i am a idiot. Just how does one play to get and where do you draw the line between playing hard to get and being a kn0b

[country_boy]

Cheeky cockiness without crossing into arrogance or over the mark p1ss taking, along with an aloof non desperate persona. Good luck!

[*Zeus*]

I cant be bothered with the "game"............if two people like each other, they shud get togetther , not play games about playing hard to get, treat em mean keep em keen , and all that cr4p.

If u seem to keen birds back off, not keen enuff they think u dony like them.

[muppeteer]

when you say "try to get a girlfriend" you say it all really! dont start with the end in mind- when you are on that first date do not under any circumstances start wondering if there is a future in it. just relax & enjoy the company, find common ground & most of all have fun & laugh- after all, there is nothing sexier than somone who makes you laugh! before you know it your relaxed attitude will start to grow on the ladies & you will have more fun & be less anxious.