Relationship patch up

[Annie456]

Whats the best way to go about fixing relationship problems after a big fight? is it best to just do it, or wait a few days and arrange to go somewhere. It's pretty major and i feel like I'll only get this one chance.

[dot.hawkes]

Firstly you both have to want it to happen, otherwise it will not work out. Whoever was in the wrong, both parties are involved and so both need to say sorry. But it is better to act now than let any more ill feeling build up.

[ktlou]

I think you definately should sort it sooner rather than later, if thats what you really want to do. My bf and I had a huge argument once and actually broke up - 2 hours later, we talked again, realised how ridiculous we had been, patched it up and are now happier and stronger than ever! I don't even want to think about what might have happened had we not had that chat though!! As you said, you only get one chance to fix things! Good Luck!

[kazzianne]

I guess it depends what the fight was about,but personally I always want to make up asap.We had a huge row one night over something daft and he stormed out in temper and slept in his car!! (I didnt know that at the time) The next day I rang him and said come home and talk.and we sorted it in 5 mins.But he's so stubborn that he wouldnt have rang!!

Clear the air asap - you'll feel much better - good luck!

[mattie]

Its best to sort out problems by talking about them straightaway, the longer you leave it the harder it will be.

However, as already stated, both of you have to want to sort it out.

[raysparx]

Annie, get together and have a shag!!!