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Good Evening everyone, me and my wife where pondering something earlier.
We where watching a programme on one of the digital channels about why men/women have affairs behind their spouses back.
We both know that we would never do it, but what we wanted to know was why men/women do it, my wife said to me "Oh men would say that their wife doesn't understand them", she said it was an excuse to have an affair and I must agree I think she has a point.
What do you all think?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I completely recommend that every woman in the world reads a book called 'What men don't want women to know' - By Smith and Doe. You will find all the answers you need in there.
Men have affairs coz they can.
Women have them coz there is something unfufilling in the relationship.
More women leave their partners for their lovers than men do! Women seek something outside the relationship they are in. Even if its not sexual and it completely emotional.
Men have affairs mostly coz they were in the right place at the right time.. (or the wrong time)!! Very rarely does a man leave his wife for his mistress! Most men can happily carry on an affair until either someone finds out or until the mistress demands more!
Plus most men don't leave an unhappy relationship unless they have something to leave for. As long as a man is being fed, not moaned at 24/7 and getting some form of sex from the wife.. then he will not leave unless he has someone to leave her for! A man will settle.. even if he knows he isn't happy.. simply because ending it.. is to much of an effort.
I realise there are exceptions to these rules.. but trust me... read 'What men don't want women to know'.. Smith and Doe are Gods!!! Lol.
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It seems to be inbuilt with the majority of men, mates of mind who are happily married love the idea of the ''risk factor'' as this is a bigger thrill than the affair itself.
Its also noticeable that the majority of older guys who are married etc feel they still have the ''Pulling factor'' a classic example is my brother {whos single} is 43 but loves the idea that he can pull younger women, he tells me that they love it when he mentions hes got his own house, car, good job etc as they find hes a catch, {yea right} but its his life hes no commitments
From another point of view (a personal one) - both men and women have affairs because they are looking for something specific that their spouse is not 'offering'. I don't mean excitement, fun, the thrill of being caught etc., but something more... er... unusual... something more 'psychological'.
This has probably come out all wrong! Apologies.