calling aliceband

[catherine_s]

here to help, whats up? thought it would be best to start a new thread

[catherine_s]

he;s in your bed?!!! kick the ****** out!

[catherine_s]

aw steve dont go, i want to know why on earth you thought i was 28

[laurence2]

Alice, sorry babe, i,m taken, married 16 years ago after a holiday romance

[steve208]

will have to soon am startin to get little tired!!

anyway 28 was just kinda guess...thought no doesnt sound that young but not too old and thought might be 28 give or take 5 years but no was wrong.

erm what part of blighty are you in?! im in hertfordshire.

[catherine_s]

*sigh* how romantic

[Aliceband]

Catherine, last one here, so you can get to bed. I had stopped total contact with him in the end. No emails or texts or phonecalls. I was 99% over him. Then he rang me....damm. And now I am back to stage one again.

Thanks Catherine, and all you other lovely people for your help. Sorry for my whinging xxxxx

[jno]

he's still there?? hmm, not saying you should tip him out the window now - try and keep this free of shouting and recriminations, you seldom feel better after winding yourself up - but in the morning, tell him calmly that you feel hurt by what he's done, that you want to make a complete break, and that you won't be in touch with him again until you're good and ready. And mean it.

[catherine_s]

whinge away...but boot him out too

am i thick for not knowing what blighty means?

[steve208]

hey alice dont worry about whinging we all have to do it at some point and sounded like u really needed to let off some steam and to get some input from people.

hope you are able to get some sleep but appreciate it may be hard

[jno]

whinge all you like, that's what B&S is for. But do get your sleep!

[Aliceband]

Ah, Lawrence, a lovely romantic ending. Thanks for your help. Its very much appreciated. Honestly xx

[steve208]

cathrine your not thick...blighty...is britain. which bit do u call home? im gona say ur a northerner.

[Aliceband]

NO Catherine, he is not here.................

[jno]

blighty's England, first world war soldier slang I think

[Aliceband]

No, he is not here jno.

[laurence2]

Who's working in the morning?

[Aliceband]

I know I have thanked you already. Want to thank you all again.....For giving me your time and for really helping me clear my head. xxxxx

[catherine_s]

oh good i though he was with you, that would be a step back me thinks...i think its bed time for some of us, we're misreading each others posts!

here's me trying to be wise and mature, and i dont know what a word means that all the oldies use (chuckle)

good guess steve, im from liverpool, must be my wit and charm.....but im living in norwich at the moment...for my sins

[catherine_s]

i was going to get up at 7.30 to go for a swim laurence...dont think thats going to happen anymore

[spk]

Im in work now Laurence- its 10.53 am here in Oz. This is amazingly busy for AB tonight its usually me and Rubyrose and a few americans !