love or lust ?

[joe1]

Why is it that one person can be totally besotted with another and be happy - yet one can only care about the quality of sex that they get??

[Scarlett]

Because one is an immature arse, and one isn't.

[dot.hawkes]

because one is married and one isn't

[joe1]

which one is immature scarlett?

[joe1]

I have this problem you see - I am in love totally with a woman that says that I am a romantic - she is not - she says that the girth and length are all important. I dont agree and reckon she is gonna hurt me more.

I need someone to agee with me.

[Scarlett]

She is the immature arse. Or it could just be that she has issues. If she wants you for sex and you want her for romance, then the balance is off somewhere. Ultimately you need to be with someone who wants the same things as you. There are plenty of women out there!!

[noxlumos]

Sex and love are two completely seperate things and you can have great sex with someone you can't stand the sight of really if you are into shallow pleasure seeking which is clearly what your freind is wanting. You, on the other hand, are after a proper deeper relationship and she's not going to fit the bill by the sounds of it as she wants something uncomplicated and more detached. Find someone else, you deserve to be involved in a relationship that's fulfilling to you on the level you need and you might hit really lucky and find someone that you are in love with, is in love with you and is great in bed too, they do exist:)