Crush?

[Rubyrose]

Ok.. Me and a friend bumped into a guy I used to know, today whilst out shopping. I didn't think he would reconise me as its been a few years since I have seen him but I used to fancy him like crazy and apparently he liked me but we were young and then I was with someone ..blah blah blah! Today he said hello to me in the shop and then I stood chatting to him for about 10 mins and we got on great. We chatted about old times and when I asked him if he had a girlfriend (which I wasn't so subtle about) he said 'Yeah, well kind of.. we are on and off all the time'. Also when I asked him about still living it home he told me he is moving house soon but then he swiftly said 'But I will still be in town at the weekends and stuff'.. My friend said this was a sure sign he was interested as he was letting me know he will be out in town. I left him in the shop and me and my mate drove home. I was sure I still had his mobile number from years ago in my phone but when I checked it, it turned out to be an old number. I can easily get his new number but the question is.... what do I do when I get it? I will get it through a friend who knows him but what should I do? Text him and ask if he will be out at the weekend? I am out on Friday! This is a proper crush! I have liked this guy since I was 14 but things always got in the way! Plus my mate said I blushed bigtime when I was chatting to him.. and I NEVER blush!

[dot.hawkes]

err, let him ring u first Ruby, get a mate to pass him your number

[jon1968]

For goodness sake stop fannying around and text him ya loon!!

You never blush !!??!! Lol!!

[Rubyrose]

B*gger! I knew you'd be the first person to answer and I honestly thought you'd tell me to steer clear coz he has a girlfriend. Lol. We shall call that plan B.. ;o)

[Rubyrose]

Alright John... maybe I blush abit.. ;o)..But only in msn.. those icons are handy... :oP

[dot.hawkes]

well if he has a girlfriend he wouldn't have been so vague about her, what bloke . caught on the hop like that, is gonna admit he is a loner? Not this guy, but try to subtly (am i advising Ruby to be subtle? that's like asking Peter kay to be serious but hey) to get him to think he made the first move and get your number to him.

[Rubyrose]

Oooh I like it Dot. I can do subtle........ ok.. I lied. But I can try.. honest! *grins*

I need to get my number to him then! F*ck! How am I going to do that without having to explain to people why I am doing it! Trouble is I can easily get his number through my ex and my ex's mate.. but it would be more difficult getting my number to him! Oh cr@p... I am so bad at this. I need to learn... Plus I am slightly drunk!

[jon1968]

He�s either a loner or he�s hitched but fancies a dabble!
No lose situation for you!!

[catherine_s]

go for it! crushes are great

[Rubyrose]

He is really really sexy and he is funny and plus I have known him along time.. but with a big gap in the middle! But.. if he is willing to cheat on a girlfriend with me then alarm bells shall be ringing... but I do like him... *blush*

[catherine_s]

well that would be his problem not yours, i know its not a nice thing to do but when youre in that situation sometimes you cant help yourself :$

[dot.hawkes]

Ok as a compromise, (I am watching War of the Worlds so distracted),I will allow u to text him your number but that is it, no chat just a text saying here is my number: ok?

[Rubyrose]

Thats very true Catherine and he said her and him are on and off... maybe I will catch him when they are off ;o)

Ok Dotty. Thanks. You drive a hard bargain. I will now have to get his number before Friday night as I am out on the town on Friday and hope he will be there. *beams a smile*

[Ward-Minter]

Are you determined to make me jealous or what?

[Rubyrose]

Lol.. Sorry Wardy hunny. You know you are number one.. ok that was a lie but you are definately top 5 ;o)

[dot.hawkes]

ruby you mad woman where is wardy? was he here and then gone? I see he is a greenie

[Rubyrose]

Oh my God! Where is Wardy? Is he banned?