pulling girls?

[dansillysod]

what are the real best ways to pull a girl on a night out in club. curious to know the different ways.

[andy-hughes]

Men in clubs are looking for girls, girls in clubs are out with their friends for a night out, fending off men! It's not a good place to meet people but ....

Don't be desparate. Women sense desparation from about five miles off, and it's an instant no-no.

Do NOT use cliches or 'chat-up lines' - even if she hasn't heard it before, you'll come across as shallow, stupid and boring.

Want her interest? Speak to her NICELY. Ask her about herself, be genuinly interested. Talk for a maximum of ten minutes, then say something like "Well, I've really enjoyed meeting you, see you a little later ..." and walk away! Madness? Think about it. She's probably there for the whole evening, so she isn't going to go home yet. If she likes you, and you were getting on well, she'll be gob-smacked that you have left her, so try and be visible, stay in her orbit, and catch her eye and smile occasionally. Leave it about ten minutes, then re-appear, and offer to buy her a drink. If she is interested, she will say yes, if not, then you are wasting your time, and you can move on, dignity intact.

So, to summarise, be nice, be friendly, don't be a creep or an idiot, be a little bit 'unavailable' and see if she is interested.

Good luck.

[Loosehead]

You can't pull a girl in a night club unless you both know some sort of semaphore! In my experience night clubs are the worst places to pull. Good advice from Andy though, if you can actually find a club with a quiet area.

Andy you say girls don't go out to attract men, why then do they dress up and spend most of the previous week putting on makeup? Why would they go somewhere if they intended to "fend off men"? I mean a Gazelle doesn't go and socialise in a field of lions.

[Postdog]

What always worked for me was to be the first bloke dancing - girls just flocked round, a bit of casual banter, and then to the bar with the one you fancy.

[Beanmistriss]

Don't come up behing her and lick her back. A man did that to me once, it was well skanky :/ x

[andy-hughes]

C'mon Loosehead, this 2006!

Girls dress up because it makes them feel good, not because they want to attreact, and then repel men!

Girls go for a night out to a club to have a dance, meet their friends, have a chat with people, and generally enjoy themselves. That doesn't mean they are up for being the target of every men-behaving-badly moron who thinks he has cool lines and an irriesistable personal magentism!

If you treat a young lady like an adult, and respect her space and personality, you may make an aquaintancce, but based on the severl thousand who have tried before you, and generally irritated the hell out of her, don;t be surprised if her defences are up when you first approach.

Be nice - it works!

[Nummy]

Andy - just wanted to say that you sound like a lovely guy!

(hope dansillysod takes your advice)

:o)

[-GrimReaper-]

Go right up to one. Say Hi. then stick your tongue right down her throat. She'll be making you breakfast the next morning for sure.

[andy-hughes]

Thank you Nummy, you are very seet. You'vev made my weekend!

A x