Staying Safe In Manchester.....
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I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going so well for you, but it does sound as if you are suffering mild Postnatal Depression, and this is probably making any problems with your husband seem 10 times worse, arrange to see your health visitor and have a good talk about the way you're feeling.
I don't believe people should stay together just for a child, they are resilient and it won't affect them as much at your Son's age as it would were they a teenager, but you must try and exhaust your options before you decide to leave.
Has anything happened in your relationship that has changed your views of hubby?
Also could you ask a family member to have your Son for a few days, you and your husband get away for a few days and have a proper chat about how you feel about each other without any interruptions.
Good Luck honey and let us know what you decide x
there is more to life..........but dont join the statistics for the sake of it!! try and remeber what things were like before the bills came along! we all like to think of living the endless summer but sooner or later the winter arrives!!
perhaps there is a spark between you and your hubby,but because the mortgage/rent is due,you need to go shooping,the little un needs new shoes,the car needs taxing......it all adds up and you take it out on the one's you love!!!!!
i lost a business 4 years ago and it made us very cash poor,me and the wife were at each others throats all the time....things are better now financialy and there is less pressure on us!! ..we argue now and again but i/we are happy we never went through with the divorce talk!!!
good luck with your decision!!
I think madham has hit the nail on the head. As your child is only 18 months old, you may be suffering from a bout of post natal depression combined with a few other factors.
Post childbirth, our sex lives get disrupted and the re-organisation of our everyday lives is often haphazard. It is also worth remembering a relationship between two people changes dramatically when a child arrives on the scene and some people are better at adapting to all these changes than others. It might be an idea to contact one of the marriage guidance groups before doing anything final.
I hope this helps.