Top tips for a man with a mission..

[Tock389]

Hello. I am meeting a pair of female work contacts for lunch on Friday, one of which I am very keen on.
I don't want to seem overkeen, but just want her to be intrigued by me, and take an interest.

She is gorgeous, but I don't want to be a desperate prat about it

Any tips to make me a man of mystery who is irrrestible?

[Supernick]

No matter what they say, they love a bit of casual violence. Find a mate who doesn't mind being tw***ed in the face and get him to shout some sexist remarks at them. Casually walk over, wallop him one and then sit back down as if nothing happened.

No, wait. Get the mate to walk over crying and thanking you for performing some sort of heroic task the previous week, (preferably involving kids or animals). Publicly give him �100 which you will get back later and then day. "Have this mate towards little Timmy/Sooty's operation. I know you're hard up".

Small Print - These may be rubbish suggestions, and any person carrying them out does so at their own risk.

[Ms.Hijinx]

lmao@supernick but my advice would be to be yourself women don't like mind games nor do they like signing up to something they believe is one way then finding out its not what we thought at all cos that means you lied and if you lie at the start then whatelse will you lie about!!! see how it will spiral into intense crap be yourself im sure you are a great guy goodluck

[Champagne]

Let them think you're attractive to the opposite sex by walking into the venue surrounded by 8 beautiful women.

[Craig007]

Dont swear, stare, dribble or spill anything on your tie!

After a performance like that she will be putty in your hands! :o)

[Octavius]

I was once advised of a technique which involved listening intently to that person. Ok, thats not all of it, but it's a start.

The 'idea' is that instead of listening to what someone says and seeing how this reflects in your life and responding with a 'oh yes, when I did that....etc' you take the focus away from you and your situation and imagine the conversation from inside their head, and where they think this particular conversation is going - with you adding precise yet inspirational mutterings. (Stay with me). After a while you will find that you actually get in tune with the person and the conversation opens up to them and they suddenly find that you are the most interesting person to speak (& listen) to, because you have let them (and lead them) in their own conversation. It take practise, but trust me it works.

Other than that, she still has to find you physically attractive. But get practising now, before Friday. Good luck.

[Craig007]

Or.......... just be yourself, and if she doesn't seem interested move on, or maybe become her stalker.

[Octavius]

Wear a business suit made entirely from chocolate. Women can't resist that.

[Veggibear]

Chocolate suit idea - genius :-)

Just be yourself. Get to know her and let her get to know you. Please don't play silly mind games - they only work in naff soap operas.

Good Luck

[Champagne]

I agree with Craig007. Stalk her until she gives in.

[Marshmallow9]

You will only be successful being yourself, if you play games and pretend you are someone you are not the liklihood is you may get together and then she may dump you when you turn out to be not who she thought leaving you heartbroken and worse off than you are now. Be yourself and if she doesn't want you move on and keep looking for the one!

[gazzawazza]

Wear a black, wide-brimmed hat and a black cape. And a 'Lone Ranger' type mask. Then don't tell her your name, and every time she asks you something, half-cover your face with your cape and mutter something in latin. This is guaranteed to work and she'll be all over you like a rash.

[ali_alic]

I was once told that the most interesting people that are the ones that let you talk about yourself. So I reckon Octavious is on the money there......

[alijangra]

Make sure you smell nice, you have clean teeth and fresh breath. Make her laugh. Simple as that.