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Ok so i have a few questions! wat really goes on in mens head!
have been scorin a lad on / off for a while now wasn wit him for ages and then we were wit each other a few weeks ago! went back to his nothing happened talked for ages more than we ever had! then was out the nest weekend and he blanked me was a bit angry but i got over it then i got a message that nite! then we were txt for a while then all went quite then he made a bit of an effort last weekend to txt nd say hello not much else! so me the silly girl i am sent a drunken message one of the nites! txt last nite but he just stops after a while!
all i reallly want to know wat is he at? hes messin wi my head at this stage nd im quite sick of it!! but i feel quite stupid wen i txt him as if im bein a pest! could any one shed some light on this matter !
have been scorin a lad on / off for a while now wasn wit him for ages and then we were wit each other a few weeks ago! went back to his nothing happened talked for ages more than we ever had! then was out the nest weekend and he blanked me was a bit angry but i got over it then i got a message that nite! then we were txt for a while then all went quite then he made a bit of an effort last weekend to txt nd say hello not much else! so me the silly girl i am sent a drunken message one of the nites! txt last nite but he just stops after a while!
all i reallly want to know wat is he at? hes messin wi my head at this stage nd im quite sick of it!! but i feel quite stupid wen i txt him as if im bein a pest! could any one shed some light on this matter !
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goodgrl (sensing not so good now.....;))
Anyway,
i'm 21 and understand what u said and are trying to say.
I think there are loads of girls in ur situation, been in it myself. As previous posts have stated it seems that he doesnt want anything serious and i wouldnt fall for the odd BOOTY CALLS (for the oldies - when someone rings u up simply to get you round for a bit of "slap and tickle", without the Ploughmans lunch.....).
If you're looking for something more serious, like a relationship then i'd move on to better things.
It seems like he's just doing enough to keep him on your mind so you dont get over him, whilst he's out there probably checking out and meeting other girls.
Men tend to have this sensor which goes off everytime you're about to move on which means it's time to send you a message...
Dont fall for it - dont reply to his messages and move on.
Anyway,
i'm 21 and understand what u said and are trying to say.
I think there are loads of girls in ur situation, been in it myself. As previous posts have stated it seems that he doesnt want anything serious and i wouldnt fall for the odd BOOTY CALLS (for the oldies - when someone rings u up simply to get you round for a bit of "slap and tickle", without the Ploughmans lunch.....).
If you're looking for something more serious, like a relationship then i'd move on to better things.
It seems like he's just doing enough to keep him on your mind so you dont get over him, whilst he's out there probably checking out and meeting other girls.
Men tend to have this sensor which goes off everytime you're about to move on which means it's time to send you a message...
Dont fall for it - dont reply to his messages and move on.
I used to find that the ploughmans lunch would invariably cause lots of crumbs to get wedged in my cleavage and would cause havoc in the creases of my puffball skirt..so that had to stop.
I could never fathom how you could 'have it off' but then I can't fathom BJ either..should it be SJ or LJ? bumping uglies is a more apt description for 'scorin one on' or whatever it is.
Slap & tickle..actually no, I didn't know any good techniques in those days. I am surprised I ever got laid at all, actually ;o)
I could never fathom how you could 'have it off' but then I can't fathom BJ either..should it be SJ or LJ? bumping uglies is a more apt description for 'scorin one on' or whatever it is.
Slap & tickle..actually no, I didn't know any good techniques in those days. I am surprised I ever got laid at all, actually ;o)
goodgrl, why don't you just forget about him and move on? if he's making you unhappy before you're even in a relationship, why bother?
You're only getting treated how you allow yourself to be treated, do something about it or you'll find yourself with people like this for the rest of your life. Not all men are p****s!
As for the ploughmans lunch... I don't think any of us are still pointing at the moon shouting 'Ug, ug!' :P
You're only getting treated how you allow yourself to be treated, do something about it or you'll find yourself with people like this for the rest of your life. Not all men are p****s!
As for the ploughmans lunch... I don't think any of us are still pointing at the moon shouting 'Ug, ug!' :P
goodg(i)rl, much like the branston pickle on a ploughmans, it seems to me that you are his �bit on the side�, ok for the occasional cheese-dipping but you wouldn�t make a meal out of it.
If all you want is a some fun with the young lad then let it continue, but if you are wanting something more then I doubt you are going to get it from him and should therefore move on/off/in/out (whichever is the appropriate phrase these days).
If all you want is a some fun with the young lad then let it continue, but if you are wanting something more then I doubt you are going to get it from him and should therefore move on/off/in/out (whichever is the appropriate phrase these days).
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right i'm sorry but i see man-kind getting slagged off to the max yet again on this site no one says a damned thing and it winds me up.
How do you know that this lad isnt thinking "i've got a mutual girl who like the occasional......" but no he gets a girl who is getting used and abused. its never just a bit of fun with women is it? they cant just have sex with a guy once in a while without putting something else on top of it. so what this bloke texts you once in a while cause he gets horny its your own damn fault for running to him every time.
have you told him you like him or you want more? or have you just left it up to him????
as far as i can see this boy has done nowt wrong and you have to try and justify how hes got you under the thumb.
yes my posts are quite harsh but i beleive they have a lot of truth.
How do you know that this lad isnt thinking "i've got a mutual girl who like the occasional......" but no he gets a girl who is getting used and abused. its never just a bit of fun with women is it? they cant just have sex with a guy once in a while without putting something else on top of it. so what this bloke texts you once in a while cause he gets horny its your own damn fault for running to him every time.
have you told him you like him or you want more? or have you just left it up to him????
as far as i can see this boy has done nowt wrong and you have to try and justify how hes got you under the thumb.
yes my posts are quite harsh but i beleive they have a lot of truth.
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