What makes u miserable to the point where u think. this is annoying, i have done my best, i can't do any more, love me or leave me? ( this is hyperthetical by the way)
Being used by someone, or when your whole relationship is on their terms and you make so many compromises that your changing the very things about you that they found so attractive in this first place.
When your a person very in touch with their feelings, and know how you feel and why you feel it, and have no problems communicating this, but your with a person who clams up, sweeps things under the carpet, minimises your opinions, refuses to discuss things, or denies that they are behaving a certain way for a certain reason and you know damm well its true!!!
My biological family ( brother, mother etc) who war constantly with each other, me, their neighbours, each other. It's like the Godfather in my mother's kitchen and sometimes I just wish the self destructive t*****s would just give it a rest for 5 minutes.
daftpixie..... my b/f has decided his life will be so much more better if he moves to a job miles away...........so I guess thats solved my problem............grrr........men huh