Ex's!

[Rubyrose]

Hey all,

(I'm at work on AB... whoohoo)

Me and my ex have been broken up for 7 months now!! Thats a long time and I thought I was 100% over him... until I was out with his mate the other day and we started chatting about him and I found out him and his new girlfriend (The one he left me for) are going on holiday for 2 weeks! This seemed to really upset me and now I keep thinking about him! I don't want him back and I am having the time of my life now but I can't seem to let it go!!! Any thoughts as to why?

[Rubyrose]

I know Spk... people in here do cheer me up actually but also the people at my work do. They are all so nice and I get on with all of them so well. I love it here. We had a team building day the other week and we did 'Its a knockout'..... hilariously funny! xxxxx

[CiderMonkey]

Rubyrose - i know kind of how you feel. When i got with my bf i was really jealous because he'd been to Jamaica with his ex and he wasn't keen on going anywhere like that with me. I felt at the time that he must have liked her more to have done that with her. But after we talked about it i realised he never wanted to go and was forced into it because he felt it was the right thing to do. I feel much better knowing that he feels he can tell me that he doesn't want to do things like that and not feel has has to do it too keep me happy. We have been away together to places like Amsterdam and Gibraltar and have probabaly had a better time that spending tons and going half way round the globe.

[Rubyrose]

Actually... Jamaica is where my ex is going!!!!! But its totally not the kind of place he would choose to go! I am baffled!

[~Wingnut~]

Hi Ruby :o)

Sounds like your the one having my fun, good for you! :o)

Have you thought about maybe going on holiday abroad yourself? or with friends? It could just be the thing you need to do for yourself to totally get over him, as like you say, you never went abroad with him when you were together, stuff everything and do it now, you'll have more fun :o)

[~Wingnut~]

My fun??????? what is with me! I meant MORE fun of course! lol mind you maybe you are having my fun! I want it back if you are! ;o)

[peterd]

Hi Ruby, you've said you don't want him back so there you go. As for thinking about him I suppose that's natural

[Rubyrose]

Hey Wingnut... I am seriously thinking about it... I might pop to Italy and see my mate who lives there. I also picked up some brochures the other day as I am thinking about going somewhere completely on my own!

I probably do have your fun... I am loving life.... sorry.. I will send it back! ;o)

Peterd.. I think it is natural... its the ultimate game of 'who has moved on first'!!! He won the battle but the war continues! ;o)

[Gill 05]

Ruby, joey is a c*nt, always has been, always will be. You are better out of it hun. He wasn't man enough to handle you lmao ;o) xxx

[Rubyrose]

Gill tell me something I don't know!!!!!!! ;o)
Although he wasn't a c*nt for the first 4 and half years we were together!!!!

[Gill 05]

He was just in disguise hun, and you were too loved up to notice ;o) lol xx

[Rubyrose]

Perhaps...... damn Love... pulls the wool over my eyes everytime!