I work in an open plan office. I am a bit perturbed about a member of my staff. I have noticed over the years that he has been taking holidays to San Francisco, Brighton & Manchester. He goes to these locations quite a lot. It's not a problem that he likes to go to these locations as he is quite well within his rights to do this, however I have started hearing some rumours about what goes on in these places. It seems a pattern is emmerging not to mention the patterned shirts he wears too. He recently returned from holiday and I have noticed that he is walking a bit odd also, not sure if I should ask why, although I feel i should check on the well-being of staff but don't want to put him in a awkward position - so to speak!. One very strange thing is, today he has something odd going on with his eyelids, they are rather puffy, could this be another thing i should ask about or perhaps could make it embaressing for him. Any ideas?
If someone is going to go to the effort of composing a (ahem...) "humorous" post, one would think it would at least be mildly funny. So you think the workmate is gay then? Hilarious.
It is nothing to do with you what he gets up to in his spare time. If you have a problem with him being gay and getting up to whatever sexual exploits he wishes, then that is your own issue! It would be REALLY embarrassing for him if you mentioned anything, so i suggest you just do your job at work, and expect him to do the same.