Is it alright?

[sweetrussian]

I met a married woman in a club a few months ago and we have been calling and texting each other.She saya she wants to meet up with me and I do not plan to meet her as I feel too guilty to do that however what I am wondering is if I do not actually go ahead and meet her will I still have done something wrong just by calling and texting her? Or does that not count as cheating?

[alijangra]

She is the married one and therefore is in the wrong, not you. But why call and text if you have no intention of taking it further?

[Champagne]

You'll find that a lot of men fantasise about lesbian relationships. Why don't you ask this married woman if her husband minds? He could even video you both if you're really open-minded.

You muppet!

[fee-is-me]

Hmmm... you actually SPEAK to her on the phone...??

I don't think YOU do, do you...??

[sweetrussian]

I am sure he minds! He must do.I asked her if she loves her husband and she says yes but that she is a lesbian and does not love him in a sexual way.I was planning to take things further but no longer want to.I have finished with her now but just wondered if you people thought I had done wrong even though I was only calling her?

[sweetrussian]

It is ME who was the one speaking to her yes.I would never tell anyone I was chatting to a married woman! It was ME that you spokje top aswell.I could never get a freind of mine to speak to a stranger pretending to be me! No you spoke to me and so did this lady.

[redcrx]

id say cheating as you are supposedly dating the AB Ed

[fee-is-me]

Oh SR, if i didn't know you better, i'd give you a wee pat on the bonce and a choccy button.

I have to go now. My brain needs cleaning and my next door neighbour's cousin's second cousin is going to help me.

After that i will have salad.

[Pippa68]

If it were Mr P he would be in his element :o)

[dot.hawkes]

sweatyrussian would be a better name, who's gonna register that one?

[Pippa68]

Why does it have to be russian at all?