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I'm 18 years old and I fell in love with a 50 year old. We really love each other but society won't have it. How do I tell him that I'm not ready to have sex when he is?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Karie... forgive me, slightly hungover so it's taken me a while this morning... are you asking about the age gap or the unready to have sex bit?
If the age gap - worry less about what society thinks and concentrate on what you want and need.
If the sex, if he loves you as much as you love him then I'm sure he'll wait. And there's other stuff you can do without having sex.
Hope that helps, it's the best my befuddled brain can come up with this morning. All the best xx
If the age gap - worry less about what society thinks and concentrate on what you want and need.
If the sex, if he loves you as much as you love him then I'm sure he'll wait. And there's other stuff you can do without having sex.
Hope that helps, it's the best my befuddled brain can come up with this morning. All the best xx
Of course he wants to have sex with you. Having sex with, an attractive young 18 year old is a more pleasant prospect than going to bed with a 50 year old woman of his own age whose boobs are probably dropping a bit and who's picked up a bit of flab around the hips and tummy !!.
Don't be naive. If's he's trying to put pressure on you, he doesn't love you. He's so old that he probably wants a trophy on his arm when he's out in public, or somebody to push his wheelchair in his old age. If you don't want sex, don't have it and find a nice young man your old age who is happy to enjoy your company rather than spend all his time getting you into bed.
Don't be naive. If's he's trying to put pressure on you, he doesn't love you. He's so old that he probably wants a trophy on his arm when he's out in public, or somebody to push his wheelchair in his old age. If you don't want sex, don't have it and find a nice young man your old age who is happy to enjoy your company rather than spend all his time getting you into bed.
this how you can prove 'to society' that your love is real - by not having sex for a good while - people cannot then claim he's just a dirty old man taking advantage of you.
tell anyone who asks that you are not having sex.
as has been said, if he really loves you he will wait.
if he won't then he is not the man you thought he was and you need to move on
tell anyone who asks that you are not having sex.
as has been said, if he really loves you he will wait.
if he won't then he is not the man you thought he was and you need to move on