my blind date

[filthiestfis]

Im really confused :( last night I went on a blind date that went brilliantly. We talked for hours, drank wine, everything clicked brilliantly, and we agreed to meet again in future, then at the end she gave me a little kiss and a hug and seemed really happy. She told me to meet her on msn after I got home. When I got in and eventually on msn, she wasnt there...I texted her to tell her but got nothing, so I left it at that. She may have bene tired. Today I've heard nothing from her until she came on msn and said hi but is not really talking, being quite cold.
I honestly cant think of anything I did or said that was wrong, do you think that she has regrets? All I can do is sit and wait....

[bobtheturkey]

maybe being blind she finds it hard to type?

[CrazyDaisy80]

LOL @ Bob!!

I would say that maybe you might be being a little paranoid?? Perhaps she prefers Face to Face Situations and finds it difficult to talk on MSN. I personally don't but know People that do.

I would give it a couple of Days, continue Texting and/or Phoning. If she is still 'Cold' in a couple of Days then leave her to it.

Good Luck!!

[peachy3]

mebbe she thought you woz not the right one

[Donna69]

Hmm ive done the internet dating thing too. She aint interest. Time to say "next!!".

I would love to post a question of my own, but i dont know how to do it.

[filthiestfis]

I dont get it. She told me how glad she was to have met me a few times, we really connected, why did she kiss me if she wasnt interested? Ok well I'll give it a couple more days and by then we shall see whats happened clearer.

[sophie_1003]

maybe its her idea of playing hard to get, leave it a couple of days then text or ring her if she seems cold then she's a bit horrible really!

[Jugglering]

Donna - Click on Body & Soul under the Topics Column (on left hand side) to go back to the list of questions in B&S. At the top of this section (in the middle of your screen) you should see an area for posting a question - the top line is for your Question and the box underneath for the actual question itself.

[pinkdjay]

It sounds like she's not interested. If I were you I would definitley not sit around waiting for her. Look elsewhere you deserve better.

[bendygirl]

Wait for her to contact you otherwise it makes you seem desperate thats a big put off.

[Donna69]

Thankyou for answering juggler. I have tried that but there doesnt seem to be any button i can click to submit the question. Do i have to pay for it or somthing??

Filthiestfis, im sorry for using your question space for this. You didnt say in your question that you had met her a few times????

[jump79]

If she seemed really interested then, she could be taking the time to think it over. Give it another day or two, meanwhile, don't hassle her.

If she's still uninterested after that, then forget it and move on.

[Jugglering]

Donna (apologies to filthiestfis). Under the box where you type in your question, you should see a little button marked 'submit!' on the right hand side. There is no charge as far as I know for asking and answering questions on AnswerBank.

[Donna69]

I sussed it out Juggler. Many thanks!!

[TheTemptress]

typing and talking are 2 very different things. maybe she is nervous about it. i think you should ask her out and you should tell by that. im a very confident, outgoing and flirty person but i cant seem to let myself go 'in writing'..im a good 'one liner' but again, cant do in writing....i bet thats all it is ..dont give in yet...good luck ..TT

[filthiestfis]

Temptress-it was a date last night. Im not talking about any typing. I met her last night already. She is very outgoing and confident. Anyway.

[TheTemptress]

but i thought you said you were on line, doesnt that involve typing?? sorry if i got the wrong idea...

[filthiestfis]

No Temptress-have you not read all of the question?

[TheTemptress]

sorry babe, but you did say eventually she came on ms and said hi, she may have been really shy...any news since...ill talk to ya!!

[filthiestfis]

oh jesus. No its ok Temptress.

[filthiestfis]

well if anybody cares, still heard nothing from her. I sent her a light text today (a joke) and not heard. She's a bloody good actress I think. I was totally convinced that she was interested.