Family & Relationships1 min ago
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In my new office we have quite a bit of male eye candy (male eye candy being a rarity at the best of times!). I therefore find myself admiring the hunks and giving them marks out of 10 (higher scores for the ones who have an intelligent look about them too). Now I've just returned from the ladies' toilet and was ogling a man's ar$e as he walked in front of me!! ARGH!!
Will somebody please slap me, or at the very least throw a bucket of cold water over me?
Will somebody please slap me, or at the very least throw a bucket of cold water over me?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.azif - nowt would be said by me, I have no problem whatsoever with men enjoying looking at women, just as we look at men. I'm deeply suspicious of anyone who claims to not notice attractive members of the other sex.....it's only natural and as long as anyone in a relationship doesn't act on it, or make their partner feel second best, where's the harm?
Champers....enjoy it babes...what's the highest mark out of ten so far then??? :o)))
Champers....enjoy it babes...what's the highest mark out of ten so far then??? :o)))
lol, 8 is good Champers...plenty of room for improvement then :o)))
We had a couple of really good looking guys at my work, but they soooooo knew it, which is an instant turn off for me. What's a real turn on is an attractive guy that just doesn't seem to realise it....now that's very nice indeed lol OK, time for me to nip this train of thought in the bud, before I get over heated lol
We had a couple of really good looking guys at my work, but they soooooo knew it, which is an instant turn off for me. What's a real turn on is an attractive guy that just doesn't seem to realise it....now that's very nice indeed lol OK, time for me to nip this train of thought in the bud, before I get over heated lol
You lucky lady you, I have to just dream, not even anywhere out the window for a fantasy diet coke advert man to appear at 11.30!!
Sadly the guys in my workplace would get a 5 communally in my opinion, but if you were to ask them, they would tell you they would each be 10+ (off the scale).
In a strange way their self belief is actually quite charming.
Sadly the guys in my workplace would get a 5 communally in my opinion, but if you were to ask them, they would tell you they would each be 10+ (off the scale).
In a strange way their self belief is actually quite charming.
azif - used to work as a research scientist, now full time mum so ogling opportunities few and far between. Nope, I don't get jealous and have in the passed even commented "oh, she's nice" cos I can admire a pretty woman with a good rack as much as anyone lmao I understand that some women feel threatened by it, and that's often down to their own insecurities or problems in the relaitonship, but there are some men out there who do ogle to the point of showing utter contempt for the woman they're with, and that where it becomes a bit lecherous and nasty. But having a look, and admiring what you see.....part of the fun of life :o)
kick3m0n - I think you mentioned a great point there. I think it's knowing your boundaries and not over stepping them is the key. Although I do believe "The eyes are the window to the soul" and constant ogling can cause you to pick faults in your partner which is dangerous. I think just to think this persons good looking is about far as it should go and not wanting more :)
Count yourself lucky, Champers!
I work with four guys:
I'm listening to one of them screaming monkey noises out in the workshop now.
One of them is called 'Pastry' because his face flakes over you as he speaks.
One is named 'Fly', he spits across the floor of the unit!
...and one of the is my dad!
I let myself off for the perving I do in my free time! ;o)
I work with four guys:
I'm listening to one of them screaming monkey noises out in the workshop now.
One of them is called 'Pastry' because his face flakes over you as he speaks.
One is named 'Fly', he spits across the floor of the unit!
...and one of the is my dad!
I let myself off for the perving I do in my free time! ;o)