Hi lizw, is this you ? if it is,you really need to talk to the nurse about prognosis, Herceptin is said to be a real breakthrough, my wife had 3 out of 14 affected, six months chemo and 5 years on tamoxifen, she had the Cancer diagnosed 7 years ago,she is ok, I am convinced the one thing that helped greatly was talking about it, being 100% positive and looking to the future,the treatment is getting better all the time, if it is you Please talk to somebody and I know it is hard,but be Positive, good luck, Ray xx