just found out

[littlemissx]

my recent ex is gay!!! and the whole time we were together was living with his partner!!!! we are still friends but he doesnt know i know yet..... i want to send him a message of support to tell him i'll be there for him cos i think he is going to get alot of people judging him but i also want to send him a message along the lines of you b@stard... no matter whether it was male or female he was still cheating!! any suggestions how to word my message??

[B00]

Why bother? He's your ex. Whilst it's crappy what he did to you when you were together, sending a message of bitterness or even support will not help either of you.

It happened, just think yourself lucky that you've had a narrow escape from him and move on.

[crete]

BOO dont beat about the bush lol

[4getmenot]

grow up. If you are telling the truth this person went through more hell than you are going through now.

[spk]

I would say I support you, but Im gutted you cheated and I feel really let down by you. Like you say cheating is cheating regardless of female or male.

By the by, did you ever get on tv? I always remember a question you posted AGES ago saying you were going to be on tv and when I see your name I always wonder ! :O)

[RATTER15]

I could think of many things to say but unfortunately it would be banned!! Not because hi is gay or bi but he still cheated on you. I take my hat of to you for offering him support, I'm not sure if I could do that under the circumstances.

Good luck

[littlemissx]

eh?? what do you mean if i am telling the truth?? i am only joking about telling him he's a b@stard bit and am only going to send him a message of support as like i mentioned we are still friends!! why all the harsh replies??

[littlemissx]

spk... i applied for deal or no deal and passed all the interview stages but work wouldnt give me enough time off ;o(

[B00]

How the hell were we supposed to know you were joking????

[crete]

are we mind readers now im getting told off all the time for not adding lol.

[spk]

aww shame. I love that programme too. You can ask me the question Noel..

[carrust]

The best thing you should do is go to local S T D clinic & get yourself tested. Bi-men are notorious for passing on diseases.

[redcrx]

so you dont need help to send a message calling him a ba$st4rd or something along those lines?

Hope the hell are we supposed to know that bit was a joke?

[redcrx]

was this the guy you were with when you considered cheating on him?

[4getmenot]

So the question was how do you word your message, but then not because you were joking, what is your question then and while I'm on here I'd get tested if I were you aswell.

[4getmenot]

what you mean this redcrx
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion273444.html

[redcrx]

ah thats the one, I knew Id seen littlemissx on here before

[4getmenot]

Oh dear wardy, I didnt say it coz he's gay whether he was seeing another woman or man get tested.

[redcrx]

good point WM