Worried she's cheating

[Harry31]

Hi

I think my wife maybe cheating on me.
I was looking on her mobile (bad i know)
I found some recent, flirty texts from an old flame of hers
They have spoken also as one of the texts from him said "It was so great to hear your voice again!"

This guy is gonna be in town soon and according to the texts they are arranging to meet up for dinner

She has said nothing to me

I dont know what has lead to this as we have (I think?!) a great life

What the hell do I do? Confront her and try nip it in the bud or bide my time

Its making me feel sick just thinking about it

Thanx

[Amber1571]

This is what I don't understand with people. Everyone's first reaction was "you shoudl not have read his / her phone". Well, I am sorry but if I read my hubby's phone and saw flirty texts, then I would not be ashamed to admit I was snooping. Lets face it, if Harry31 didn't snoop in the first place, then he would never know. He looked for evidence and found it, and if she was honest in the first place, then there would never be anything to find, would there?

Harry31, you should confront her, tell her you had your suspicions and looked at her phone - it is her that has explaining to do, not you.

All the best.

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