what would you do?

[mccfluff]

when a guy you haven't seen for 6 years turns up and wants to be in you life again? i atill fancy him but that it

[Katie~77]

Ask him out for a drink and see how it goes.x

[mccfluff]

yep but he is here, in my house

[Agent_Smith]

get the strap on out and tell him there are a few things that have changed!! ;~))

[Eve]

Tread carefully and take anything slowly, he if wants you that much he should understand and appreciate your caution xxx

[Eve]

did he just turn up out the blue and declare his undying love for you mcfluff? If so...swwooooooon!

[Katie~77]

Oh!!! Ermmmmmmm.......... Go down the pub. At least that way you can go home to get away from him if you want to.x

[Katie~77]

Lol @ Agent Smith.x

[nursecarla]

Why did you split up first time around mcfluff? x x x x x x xx x

[mccfluff]

well let me think, hmm he was abusive, a fckunk as@;hole to me, he is upstairs alseep right now, because thats easier but me and the cat a palnning an nice wake up call

[Katie~77]

OMG!!! Are you OK???x

[mccfluff]

yes i'm ok just trying to work out how to get rid, without getting battered in the process!

[nursecarla]

Tie him to the bed and take pics for blackmail purposes :)))) x x x x xx x x

[speedyvic]

Hi mccfluff,
we could have dated the same fella, and ain't it typical that when they turn up after years we still let them in to our home/bed.
My one turned up drunk a few weeks ago ended up staying the night but i slept on the sofa or should i say didn't sleep. My kids were in bed so i didn't want to create a fuss when he arrived, so left it till the next morning when he was sober and the kids were getting up. He never would carry on infront of them.
I told him to F**k of and never contact me again or I'd call the police and with him studying to be a barrister that wouldn't go down too well.
Hope your ok hun.
Let us know how things work out.

[dot.hawkes]

hi,

My advice to Fluff on MSN was as follows:

Leave him asleep upstairs, remove all the lightbulbs, (I missed out put broken glass on the stairs damn). barracade yourself in the lounge, arm yourself with your cat and the mobile phone and wait for the poiis.

[wonderwoman1]

hi dot, she has just phoned the police to have him removed so i hope she is ok xx

[coco clown]

have you got an attention seeking problem mccfluff. i just do not understand what it is your stating here? why did you just not start a thread asking if any other person has been in a violent relationship?

[mccfluff]

ok coco, yep your got it xx

[babyC]

Have you gone ever so slightly insane, love?!

[adonia]

negative types attract negative ,do i need to say any more?

[Agent_Smith]

whats the latest mccfluff??