Sucker for a bad boy?

[spk]

why are women into bad boys? Why are they so appealing, is it the challenge of trying to tame one?

[spk]

Champagne- I agree that "nice boys " tend to just tell the truth about stuff a bit more. One of my huge appeals about the bad boys was that when they are good they are absolutely amazing because they have been such a tW*t to you previously, that you cant believe it.

Ray Im so glad that you chilled out, obviously your lady is a very good woman and shes lucky to have you. As I always say re the money thing, money doesnt make you happy it just makes folk miserable in comfort.

[spk]

Wonderwoman !! Hi !!

Ive actually just found a nice chap from Kirkcaldy of all places branching out to Fife is a good idea so far !! Nice to see you ! x

[spk]

Noxlumus your book would be a really interesting read it has to be said !

[raysparx1]

I would like to add though, as far as Ladies are concerned I have never, cheated on one or let one down, my naughtiness was, going down the road towards Robbery etc, never with the ladies, I have far too much respect for them. and I never answered my mum back, but she must have been really worried for me and where I was going, I do regret worrying her.

[spk]

Would never have expected any less of you Ray always a gent x

[raysparx1]

Thank you spk, you are very kind, I just read through nox's I knew he had been naughty, I am so glad he got himself sorted, and he has got a great brain, I have had a few discussions with him, and he talks a lot of sense, xx

[Champagne]

Nox, you sound like my boyfriend when he was married too. My boyfriend often tells me that I am a huge calming influence on him. For the first time in his life he has somebody who he can have an intellectual conversation with and no topic of conversation is taboo.

He still has a long way to go to better himself though.

And spk, I didn't mean that nice boys are more truthful. I actually meant that the bad boys tend to be more upfront and 'in yer face' about who they are. At the end of the day though, if a guy is going to let you down then there's never going to be any 'niceness' about it anyway!

[spk]

True Champagne lol !

Ive always found in the past I get bored of "nice " men but I really think I have grown out of my bad boy stage. I dont want to feel like every day is a drama anymore

[Champagne]

Tell me about it spk. It's exhausting isn't it?

In my case though, my current 'bad boy' boyfriend is actually a really great guy and we are going from strength to strength.

[spk]

Thats good champagne, maybe you are working your magic on him Like Mrs Sparx and Mrs Noxlumus did I wish you well with it x

[Rubyrose]

Hey Spk hunny :o)

Maybe it is the challenge of taming one but also its the 'push me, pull me' thing! The good guys are available.... so thats not appealing.... its the thrill of the hunt.. the bad boys are unavailable... and we want to know if we are 'woman' enough to make him available!

[geordie_minx]

Don't you think that women want a good boy with a bit of bad boy in them? I know bad boys are only good for one thing and should be used accordingly. However, I've been on so many first dates recently with nice guys and found they don't have any 'oomph' about them.

Or maybe I'm confusing nice with boring and I need to change my strategy!

[Rubyrose]

I was with a 'nice guy' for 5yrs and at the end of it all he still ran off with some girl from his work 5 days before Xmas! The good ones are just to scared to be bad and the bad ones have more fun! The way I see it now is if I am going to be with a good one and he is still going to f*ck me over then I might as well be with a bad one, know what I am getting and have some fun with it!

[spk]

Hey Rubes !! (big hug mwah mwah !)

I agree with you its the thrill of the chase and geordie minx I totally agree too- I like good boys that do bad things. Affairs of the heart eh? lol !

[Rubyrose]

Spk... I need to give you my work email as I never check my Hotmail anymore.. that way I can still chat to you.... I am on my work email ALL day so don't check into AB much!

[Eve]

I seem to attract them however much I tell myself I want a nice guy...sigh.

Ohhh...lovely Nox you're doing nothing to prevent me developing a little crush on you after reading your posts over the last few weeks ;) is it just me or are any of you other girls having a secret swoon over the lovely irishman?

I shall go have a word with myself :)

[bluevern]

iv just got out the boob,,,,,,,

[noxlumos]

Jenna I'm truly shocked!!! Mwah XXX

[Eve]

Swooooooon!!!!!!!

[-Zorro-]

shall we leave you 2 alone